hypeforlife91
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Post by hypeforlife91 on Aug 4, 2010 6:48:22 GMT -5
I cried for a long time, I'm a bit better now. I'm still sad, but I'm holding my tears in and talking to myself... I wonder if he feels the way I do about this. Or does he really just not care. Day 1 of completely cutting off contact with him is accomplished. Just a few more weeks to go. He doesn't even contact me either, but he seems to get mad when I talk to him so that is why I'm not talking to him for now. I don't know what is going on in his mind, but I just want to be joyful for now and thankful that I still have other people who really care about me. But I really wish he was one of those people... To all who have helped cheer me on or give me advice, I truly thank you.
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Post by admin on Aug 4, 2010 17:19:19 GMT -5
Whatever the details are of how this all went down, he sounds like he is being mean. Life's sweeter without mean people. Nurse your hurt, but don't wallow in it. I can't even remember who I dated at 20.
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Post by someone89 on Aug 4, 2010 23:27:18 GMT -5
wow that's rough, sadly i have no advice to give, i have no experience in that area hope you feel better soon!
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hypeforlife91
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Post by hypeforlife91 on Aug 4, 2010 23:49:05 GMT -5
Lol thanks GUYS (really) What happened to the girls in this forum lol. I actually expected some gals to give me advice you know...since we're gals, but they seem to have all disappeared. But I really do appreciate you GUYS. I love knowing how many guys think about relationships and how they handle it, maybe that will help me in the future.
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Post by hypeforlife91 on Aug 5, 2010 20:50:20 GMT -5
There has been really sad music playing in my head for days now. I try to drown it out with real happy music. I think I'm gonna get a piano to further help with that. I haven't played in 2 years!
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Post by betahat on Aug 5, 2010 23:34:45 GMT -5
You know there's so much good sad music out there you might as well appreciate it. If it weren't for broken hearts I think half of pop music never would have been written. Some of it's more subtle that "Melancholy and the infinite sadness" but if it weren't for emotional pain our artistic world would be so much the poorer. My go to band for sad music these days would be Interpol or the Dears but there are so many candidates...
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Post by admin on Aug 6, 2010 0:37:28 GMT -5
There has been really sad music playing in my head for days now. I try to drown it out with real happy music. I think I'm gonna get a piano to further help with that. I haven't played in 2 years! Go for some happy happy piano music!
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Post by palavore on Aug 6, 2010 1:07:41 GMT -5
There has been really sad music playing in my head for days now. I try to drown it out with real happy music. I think I'm gonna get a piano to further help with that. I haven't played in 2 years! Go for some happy happy piano music! I'm a proponent of letting it all out. Purge all those feelings until you are at the very bottom. Even when you think you've got all the moisture out, give it another painful wring. Then start anew.
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Post by rob on Aug 6, 2010 2:58:37 GMT -5
I've heard that girls that just broke up are really easy to get in the sack
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Post by monroe on Aug 6, 2010 4:01:19 GMT -5
Not when you're half a world away, man.
Concluding my situation:
I guess it bothered me for a little bit in which time I missed out on lots of sleep, exercised and worked all day, such and such. But, um, that isn't really any different from my normal schedule, except I usually catch up on sleep during my days off. This last week I forgot to kill my alarm during the off days (can't get back to sleep once I wake), so was more tired than usual.
It would have been cool to get the girl, but I understand it couldn't really work out for various reasons. I'll probably put my love life aside for awhile and refocus on career and personal goals. Any issues or urges that arise will be handled with porn, one night stands, or alcohol-often in conjunction-in no particular order.
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Post by palavore on Aug 6, 2010 19:11:18 GMT -5
I've heard that girls that just broke up are really easy to get in the sack You heard... like you've never tried.
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Post by hypeforlife91 on Aug 7, 2010 5:45:01 GMT -5
He is very stubborn. Either that or he really wants to get rid of me. I just want to know why! But he won't say. I am wondering if I said something really taboo by using the word "split" or something. His parents divorced when he was really little so this might be a haunting childhood shadow. I think I traumatized him and he hates me for it now. I remember him saying he loved me because I'm different and that I am the only one who stayed. Day 5 of no-contact accomplished. It's a long road...but we're getting there.
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Post by hypeforlife91 on Aug 8, 2010 18:14:23 GMT -5
Nevermind.
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Post by admin on Aug 9, 2010 11:35:49 GMT -5
Hey palavore - thanks for posting the Lizz Wright video. Never heard of her and liked her voice, checked out some more music -- good stuff.
Meanwhile to H4L, hope you are feeling better - Monroe too. Every day is a gift.
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Post by monroe on Aug 9, 2010 17:44:20 GMT -5
Well hell, thank you. I always feel good, but I lost a little bit of mojo last week. I'm back at it again, with greater focus and clarity.
-Raging Pecker
Hope everyone else is doing awesome
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