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Post by Whoseyourdaddy on Feb 25, 2005 3:51:28 GMT -5
is there any more nice decent guys left out there??! No. all the nice guys changed to as$holes when they got screwed over too. HA, now theres some irony. |
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Post by stamp on Feb 25, 2005 3:55:02 GMT -5
Don't hate all asian guys, or all guys for that matter. And sometimes even when your insticnts say he's a nice guy, he'll be a jerk. There are no guarantees in this.
That's why...make em wait. A lonnnnnnnnnnng time. The players will leave early on, and they guys who really like you are are nice will stick around. That's my stupid advice.
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Post by Groink on Feb 25, 2005 12:33:48 GMT -5
That's why...make em wait. A lonnnnnnnnnnng time. The players will leave early on, and they guys who really like you are are nice will stick around. That's my stupid advice. "Oh, Mr. Single Nice Guy, you've always been there for me, through all the jerk boyfriends I've had hedonistic, hair-pulling monster sex with. You're such a great friend, I wish I had a boyfriend like you!" I'm not bitter. No, I'm not... |
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Post by funnygurl on Feb 25, 2005 12:35:36 GMT -5
well its official, most guys are bas$%*ds.. this asian guy I was seeing, I didnt like him at first, but then I gave in to him and look what happened.. He wants to be with me on Valentines, but then after I dont hear from him and he calls me a week later saying " ohh im just going thru something with someone I was seeing".. well wtf am I supposed to think?? Then he wants to see me on Sun to explain- Sunday when hes already had his wkd out huh and making me wonder till then?? pranking my phone, sending me blank msgs.. he can sod of with the rest of the jerks out there.. its the chase all these guys want.. honestly do us girls deserve to be treated like this?? I knew to trust my instincts at the start.. anyways sorry just venting!! is there any more nice decent guys left out there??! Nope don't deserve it. This guy is really immature, blah!! Not worth your time. And any nice guys? Sure. but there hidden and more likely than not.. introverts. Gotta approach them cause ya know they're too shy/scared to. Good luck & keep them legs closed missy! hehe ;D |
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Post by David on Feb 25, 2005 13:13:39 GMT -5
is there any more nice decent guys left out there??! How many times has this happened to you? I don't think nice guys are primarily shy, scared, introverted people. |
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Post by funnygurl on Feb 25, 2005 13:45:55 GMT -5
Okay I'll retrack. I'm not saying all nice guys are introverts because there are extroverted nice guys, too. Just saying that it would be easier to spot a "nice guy", ya know just a guy that won't two time you, and won't play games with you. And sure there are no gaurentees. But I think the chances are better that some guy who's shy/scared/intimated to approach a female isn't going to be some "player". I mean, lets be real... he'll probably be glad that a gurl is even approaching him.
But on the other hand, the exroverts are a way bigger gamble. The odds are against you. Let's see he's not afraid to flirt, talk to strangers, or approach a female therefore 1) taken already 2) willing to cheat 3) Just looking to have a good time and not looking for a study gurl. 4) single but there's a catch
Why? Because he's a confident guy and a guy like that can easily get a g/f. But if he's single and not a player than there must be something wrong with him because why is he single then? Hmmmm?
Okay not sure if I'm making sense anymore. Maybe I'm overanalyzing this. Oh well, at least you got a glimpse into the mind of a typical single gurl. Haha crazy huh?!
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Post by miya on Feb 26, 2005 15:19:43 GMT -5
racist towards my asian side?
don't think so...just don't know any full japanese guys. i think i just fall for the guys i'm friends with. in high school, that meant white guys and indian guys. in college it meant west indians. i remember having a conversation with my friend about how i wasn't attracted to black guys, and then 2 months later went crazy over this jamaican guy--ended up dating him for years. so i think it's about who you know and who is around.
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Post by miya on Feb 27, 2005 20:53:03 GMT -5
Hehe, my point is that if your wanting a lasting meaningful relationship, you might want to consider waiting to give up the goods "sex" until you both REALLY know eachother. And I'm just speaking from personal experience. Like when I met my hubby, we started out as friends for a long time. So we already know eachother completely before we decided to take the next step of dating. It was special when we first made love, no not "sex"... made love. There's a difference there. And ya know what, we waited even longer for that to happen, cause he wanted to wait. He's like " oh let's wait for while". Isn't that sweet  . I think that's rare among men. When a guy cares about you for YOU and wants to actually know every single thing about you and for you to know everything about him, before being "intimate". Waiting is good. It's the best way to find out if someone is really sincere and cares for you. So yeah, he didn't want me to give up the goods (sex). And that made the moment even more special when it finally did happen. And heck yeah it was the best ever! screw that, i want a man who will bang me till i black out....  but then again i'm not looking for long term... |
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Post by Nikki on Feb 28, 2005 5:45:45 GMT -5
Paging Hapa Guru...
Hapa Guru...
come in stat.
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Post by jenming on Feb 28, 2005 5:56:59 GMT -5
LMAO...
"And that's the story of when Miya's computer caught fire after she checked her PMs on EAN. Let it be a lesson to you."
;D
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Post by miya on Feb 28, 2005 19:44:38 GMT -5
LMAO... "And that's the story of when Miya's computer caught fire after she checked her PMs on EAN. Let it be a lesson to you." ;D haha you'd think so wouldn't you. but no, not 1 pm...  lol. if the EA's don't step up, i may be forced to talk to dapper. haha i crack me up. |
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Post by jenming on Mar 1, 2005 3:17:36 GMT -5
if the EA's don't step up, i may be forced to talk to dapper. AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH?!!!!! LOL!!!! 200 points to miya. |
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Post by Snoopy on Dec 13, 2006 2:00:29 GMT -5
Yes, I'm a little bit racist towards both my Asian and White side (but, I think 'critical' is a more suitable word). I think being Eurasian and growing up within two cultures gives us a much more detailed/knowledgeable view of what it's really like on, 'both sides of the fence'. Plus, I think it allows us to be critical without fear of being labeled a racist. p.s. I know this thread was more about 'which race do you find more attractive', but what the heck eh   |
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Post by daisypukes on Dec 13, 2006 2:39:35 GMT -5
I still stick with my original stance in this thread. Which was something along the lines of: white men = phooey! Asian men = yes, please!
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Post by saeka on Dec 13, 2006 5:50:06 GMT -5
Eh I like asians so yeah  aha |
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. I think that's rare among men. When a guy cares about you for YOU and wants to actually know every single thing about you and for you to know everything about him, before being "intimate". Waiting is good. It's the best way to find out if someone is really sincere and cares for you. So yeah, he didn't want me to give up the goods (sex). And that made the moment even more special when it finally did happen. And heck yeah it was the best ever! 
lol. 
aha