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Post by Subuatai on Dec 20, 2008 12:29:43 GMT -5
Well what doesn't kill ya, makes you stronger  Heartbreak - it hurts everytime. You can't get rid of the pain, except by becoming as cold as ice when it comes to passion and relationships. But it's pointless to do that, as I found myself only falling all over again... and again. How many times have I promised myself I won't feel 'that' way anymore? I lost count. Never works. So I thought, meh, might as well get used to it. Stupid electrical signals anyway in long-run, just very annoying and inconvenient at times. As long as you don't make stupid decisions such as: 'I'm going to close myself off from relationships', as chances it's going to happen again anyway. Might as well get ready for it - rather then struggle to get away from it. |
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Post by Paddy on Dec 22, 2008 12:22:01 GMT -5
Simon & Garfunkle, "I am a Rock".
I have no need of friendship; friendship causes pain.
It's laughter and it's loving I disdain.
I am a rock,
I am an island.
You have to open your heart and risk the pain, otherwise...
Loving is not about not about giving your all.
It's about opening your emotions to opportunity.
If it becomes tedious and there is nothing worth fighting for, then move along.
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Post by Subuatai on Dec 22, 2008 12:43:34 GMT -5
Aye, even if you an island someone is gonna come visit!!!
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Post by Paddy on Dec 22, 2008 12:47:37 GMT -5
No one is gonna visit my island if I cover it in my own stinking s***.
(although Nauru was covered in phosphate-rich bird s*** and they made fortune!)
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Post by Subuatai on Dec 22, 2008 12:54:09 GMT -5
Yes but what if that was a gorgeous ship about to land on your island but then smelt the dung and went 'eww... no way!' Heh, nothing is worse then regret |
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Post by swinger on Dec 22, 2008 13:34:32 GMT -5
Yes but what if that was a gorgeous ship about to land on your island but then smelt the dung and went 'eww... no way!' Heh, nothing is worse then regret Or what if a gorgeous ship is heading to your shore and then gets taken over by Somali pirates (or Yongfook)? |
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Post by Subuatai on Dec 22, 2008 13:35:55 GMT -5
Exactly, so its better not be an island in the first place but a battleship... no rather, a submarine haha  |
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Post by swinger on Dec 22, 2008 13:39:59 GMT -5
Exactly, so its better not be an island in the first place but a battleship... no rather, a submarine haha Submarine...now we're talking!  None of this island strategy...go forth and conquer! |
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Post by Paddy on Dec 22, 2008 13:43:19 GMT -5
Yeah, who likes Simon & Garfunkle anyway!
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Post by Subuatai on Dec 22, 2008 13:46:34 GMT -5
Exactly, so its better not be an island in the first place but a battleship... no rather, a submarine haha Submarine...now we're talking! None of this island strategy...go forth and conquer! Haha you got that right bro! ;D |
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Post by DivaDancerLara on Dec 22, 2008 15:49:02 GMT -5
^cheese
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Post by sim on Mar 22, 2011 22:21:17 GMT -5
Well what doesn't kill ya, makes you stronger Heartbreak - it hurts everytime. You can't get rid of the pain, except by becoming as cold as ice when it comes to passion and relationships. But it's pointless to do that, as I found myself only falling all over again... and again. How many times have I promised myself I won't feel 'that' way anymore? I lost count. Never works. After I had my heart broken I didn't think I should become as cold as ice. In a perverse way, it was good to know I could feel THAT bad and get over it. Slowly. It was your can't get out of bed I'm that heart broken etc. I have never ever felt SO bad. Before that, I never thought it existed and wondered what people were talking about when they went on about being so heartbroken they can't eat. To have your heart broken though you have to keep your heart open, be fearless and really love someone (even if they don't want to love you back)...I guess before then I hadn't let anyone close enough to me to get my heart broken (probably because I didn't see long term potential in them i.e. they didn't have the qualities I was looking for!) If anything though- it made me less fearful of getting my heart broken again. As I'd been there, done that and knew that there is no point to a relationship if they can't break your heart...and I know that no matter how low I was feeling, I could pick myself back up again (even if it was only to focus on what I was doing in the next 5 minutes just so I could actually get out of bed). |
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