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Post by ahliang on Mar 19, 2009 8:45:45 GMT -5
he believes a westernized look brings me closer to the german high-society [...] I just got last year a nose bridge done , he wants me to make my eyes bigger and to scalling down my jaw and my nose. But I decided to not do it, plastic surgery is hurtful and straining  mmm... i wonder if he wishes to make you look more westernized because as he considers you his "own", he wished you looked more like him. that s sweet. i m happy for you.  in any case, not that you should listen to me but if i were you (then again, it s not like i can put myself in your shoes...goes to demonstrate my advice may be useless), don t try to look more caucasian for the sake of your dad. i m sure that even if he s encouraged you to get these surgery procedures, he loves you for what you are. and as an individual, i m afraid that should you reconnect with your asian heritage one day, you ll regret having had surgery to alter your looks to be more "white-germanic-high-society". and i wouldn t think your dad is dead yet 68 is quite young nowadays. my dad is a half decade away from that age and he s just as lively as ever. barely looks 50! |
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Post by mck on Mar 19, 2009 14:34:50 GMT -5
It's not his fault, he doesn't like asians in generall so he can't accept an asian person as beautiful, but this his problem and not mine  . Exactly, that is the reason that I don't want to westernize more. I prefer when people think that japanese, white people always interprete the positive prejudices like intelligence and good manners on me. |
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Post by mck on Mar 19, 2009 14:48:03 GMT -5
He hadn't the choice with me, he had to accept me to marry my mum . But now they are divorced and I wanted me to live with him and I wanted to live with him. Sometimes he says nasty things about asian persons but I forgive him this because he's my authority person. |
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Post by grassgrace on Mar 20, 2009 18:00:53 GMT -5
It's not his fault, he doesn't like asians in generall so he can't accept an asian person as beautiful, but this his problem and not mine . why is it so important to him, for you to be beautiul anyway? |
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Post by Miyuki on Mar 20, 2009 20:14:53 GMT -5
Didn't happen to be Ala Moana Beach park, did it? Was your dad a local boy? That was a cute story. I wonder how rare it is to meet someone in that way and have a marriage blossom from it. I dread telling my [dimly possible future] children that their mom and I were matched on "29 dimensions of compatability". That park name is very familiar, but I may just recognize it from having gone to Honolulu so many times. I get to tell my future kids that hubby and I met at a bar called The Funky Planet. Blech! |
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Post by Miyuki on Mar 20, 2009 20:17:35 GMT -5
He hadn't the choice with me, he had to accept me to marry my mum . But now they are divorced and I wanted me to live with him and I wanted to live with him. Sometimes he says nasty things about asian persons but I forgive him this because he's my authority person. Your story is unbelievable! |
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Post by jaz on Jun 3, 2009 7:47:25 GMT -5
Hi,
I've just joined - is it OK to post to a thread that hasn't been touched for a few months?
My parents met when they were both in the air force (Royal Australian Air Force = RAAF). Back then the women were in the WRAAF, which merged with the regular RAAF in 1977. Also in my mum's time women had to leave the air force when they got married.
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Post by admin on Jun 3, 2009 8:32:21 GMT -5
Hi, I've just joined - is it OK to post to a thread that hasn't been touched for a few months? Absolutely! |
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Post by fei on Jun 3, 2009 10:19:12 GMT -5
^ Wow your mum a pilot! It might be so hard to be a pilot back then so your mum must be petty something. Anyway my dad met my mum when he have to take care of family business in Malaya, I think she was going home from school when a white man ask her name. The rest is history..
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Post by jaz on Jun 3, 2009 19:23:23 GMT -5
Sorry if what I wrote was misleading - neither of my parents were pilots, though they were both in the Air Force. My father was an Elec Fitter at the time, my mother was doing typing and admin type duties.
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Post by mrxcloudyxloc on Jun 20, 2009 5:20:07 GMT -5
Pops was in the USAF stationed out here in Korea. I've heard different stories on how they actually met, her friend actually married one of his friends and we're all really close, but I think they probably met in a bar in the village outside of the base. He knocked her up and here I am. They married right before I was born and have been married ever since, which is more than I can say for a lot of my happa friends with military dads and Korean moms.
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Post by Maverick on Jun 21, 2009 23:34:48 GMT -5
*cough* massage parlor *cough*
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Post by Maverick on Jun 21, 2009 23:36:09 GMT -5
Pops was in the USAF stationed out here in Korea. I've heard different stories on how they actually met, her friend actually married one of his friends and we're all really close, but I think they probably met in a bar in the village outside of the base. He knocked her up and here I am. They married right before I was born and have been married ever since, which is more than I can say for a lot of my happa friends with military dads and Korean moms. Same here, dad was stationed in Korea when he was in the AF. |
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Post by mingzayni88 on Jun 25, 2009 20:40:31 GMT -5
NOI (Nation of Islam) meeting that my grandpa was holding...¬¬....it was a phase...none of them are in it anymore.
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Post by candicemarlon11 on Sept 2, 2009 10:46:02 GMT -5
My parents shares to us that they met in a restaurant. |
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