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Post by Subuatai on May 22, 2009 8:26:41 GMT -5
Easy, forget to wear a condom then you'll be ready and if not you'll be banging your head against the wall to make yourself ready.
Ne ways no rush, and just let fate decide.
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Post by milkman's baby on May 22, 2009 12:33:51 GMT -5
I got a question for those who are married or gonna marry soon. My question is how do you know when you are ready to settle down or tied the knot?? Well, for most women it would be once your credit score goes low or you still can't pay for the new Louis Vuitton bag you've been wanting. For men, I guess it's like Subuatai said with the whoops baby coming along. Or maybe there's a few men here and there that have actually found a women good looking enough that they don't want to share with other men. Oh yeah, and employers like married men better. For me, I think I'll feel ready to tie the knot after my lobotomy is complete.
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Post by halfbreed on May 22, 2009 12:40:01 GMT -5
LOL
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Post by Paddy on May 22, 2009 13:14:20 GMT -5
For me, I think I'll feel ready to tie the knot after my lobotomy is complete. How far through are you?
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Post by milkman's baby on May 22, 2009 13:49:21 GMT -5
For me, I think I'll feel ready to tie the knot after my lobotomy is complete. How far through are you? I haven't quite decided whether I wanna do that or save the costs of operation and just push myself down the stairs and crack my head open. And I know I just set myself up badly, but don't you dare retort with a mean joke. I don't wanna hear it.
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Post by Paddy on May 22, 2009 14:34:25 GMT -5
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Post by milkman's baby on May 22, 2009 14:36:49 GMT -5
lol
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Post by fei on May 23, 2009 2:08:47 GMT -5
I got a question for those who are married or gonna marry soon. My question is how do you know when you are ready to settle down or tied the knot?? Well, for most women it would be once your credit score goes low or you still can't pay for the new Louis Button bag you've been wanting. For men, I guess it's like Suburbia said with the whoops baby coming along. Or maybe there's a few men here and there that have actually found a women good looking enough that they don't want to share with other men. Oh yeah, and employers like married men better. For me, I think I'll feel ready to tie the knot after my lobotomy is complete. I dint want accident child for me to get marry beside this will ruin my reputation not mention bring disgrace to my Asian conservative community. It will be easier as Subuatai say let fate decide but im in a position as it is crucial for to produce an heir as im in family business which spun on third generation. Nowadays women not keen to settle down early, as they tend to do shopping till the last minute. They are more independence and more vocal unlike our previous generation.
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Post by rob on May 23, 2009 3:13:31 GMT -5
Well, for most women it would be once your credit score goes low or you still can't pay for the new Louis Button bag you've been wanting. TRUTH Thank you for saying this. Can't tell you how many girls I've met whose desire to hook-up stems entirely from material needs and their inability to obtain a lifestyle they think they deserve. Don't give a sh*t how hot they are (hot girls are a dime a dozen), this behaviour is so pathetic and a massive turn off.
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Post by jenbrook on May 23, 2009 4:47:14 GMT -5
^Yea but its passed down from mother to daughter, its one of those ideals instilled into young girls from a young age, y'know.. find prince charming, let him whisk you away to a better life. Its hard to break tradition, esp if you have your mother breathing down your neck telling you that you need a man who can look after you and dont you dare marry just for love, it will be the end of you and she will be so disappointed etc.
I wouldnt hear the end of it if i married someone poor, even if i made bank, just because its not 'supposed' to be that way. So i can understand the behaviour, and i think its more about tradition rather then these girls being pathetic human beings.
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Post by Subuatai on May 23, 2009 6:17:53 GMT -5
^Yea but its passed down from mother to daughter, its one of those ideals instilled into young girls from a young age, y'know.. find prince charming, let him whisk you away to a better life. Its hard to break tradition, esp if you have your mother breathing down your neck telling you that you need a man who can look after you and dont you dare marry just for love, it will be the end of you and she will be so disappointed etc. My wife has recieved the same treatment from her mum all her life. Yet I never had a Porsche, or a high-up job, or lots of cash, or a big house, or even a uni certificate. Therefore I can't really say I agree that it's hard to break such a tradition due to motherly influence. It's true though that women nowadays still look for financial stability, now I don't find anything wrong with that. But by financial stability it means the bloke must be able to take care of himself. I've met a lot of women who were with men who leech off their hard-working girlfriends/wives.
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Post by helles on May 23, 2009 6:42:30 GMT -5
^Yea but its passed down from mother to daughter, its one of those ideals instilled into young girls from a young age, y'know.. find prince charming, let him whisk you away to a better life. Its hard to break tradition, esp if you have your mother breathing down your neck telling you that you need a man who can look after you and dont you dare marry just for love, it will be the end of you and she will be so disappointed etc. I wouldnt hear the end of it if i married someone poor, even if i made bank, just because its not 'supposed' to be that way. So i can understand the behaviour, and i think its more about tradition rather then these girls being pathetic human beings. agreed. tho a lot of my ea female friends with asian mothers have tended to 'rebel' against mother's advise. I personally have never gone out with an uber rich guy. and am vehemently against being set up with her rich friends son. i think it breaks my mum's heart a little, all her hard work in setting us up with a 'good life' and i go out very average or below wealth guys. generalisation, but it seems to be the up and coming asian girls who's mothers (who perhaps missed out on the rich matching boat ) are forcing on the idea of marrying a rich guy. in hk, Cathy Tsui (?) is seen as a role model for many girls.
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Post by Subuatai on May 23, 2009 7:26:55 GMT -5
Well my mother-in-law married a rich bloke, the house, the cars, all his. But I'm not going to say that my wife's parents got together for only material reasons; nonetheless I would admit that materialism is an aspect of my mother-in-law, which she drilled down my wife's throat and treated me like some "Romeo" who's a bad influence on her daughter. "What works for me will work for my daughter" mentality perhaps.
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Post by jenbrook on May 23, 2009 8:17:04 GMT -5
^Yea i think that whole breaking tradition thing is harder then it sounds.. are you not having some problems in that area right now what with your sub-human swede-chinese wife
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Post by Subuatai on May 23, 2009 8:48:17 GMT -5
Please put brackets when it comes to words such as "subhuman", thanks - I'm not proud of how I treated her in the past. As for tradition, Chingghis Khaan broke tribal Mongol traditions and founded meritocracy; where humans were judged by merit not by station or any rights by birth. So I can always say; It's a Mongol tradition to break traditions....
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