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Post by Paddy on May 21, 2009 12:39:34 GMT -5
So...carrying on in a similar vein to the 'Fighting' thread - do you ever get involved with a bit of rough & tumble with your partners? Is it just a bit of fun, or does it ever go a bit too far?
Does your girlfriend/boyfriend like to sock it to you? Do you ever retaliate...? Does it enter the realms of S&M or even domestic violence?
My girl is a feisty little number.
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Post by palaver on May 21, 2009 13:16:33 GMT -5
Ever done one of these numbers: ))<>((
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Post by meep on May 22, 2009 3:00:40 GMT -5
^ Weird. But I want to watch that movie.
My boyfriend and I aren't feisty. Maybe verbally when we call each other c***, bitch, slut, motherf***er for fun. Sometimes we tickle each other. Pretty feisty!
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Post by meep on May 22, 2009 3:01:39 GMT -5
and by sweetheart (what?) I mean c*nt. and by motherfarmer (what?), I mean motherf*cker...
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Post by amalgam on May 22, 2009 8:30:05 GMT -5
^ It's nice to see you get along...
@ That vid... WHUT THE!?
))<>((
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Post by Subuatai on May 22, 2009 8:31:35 GMT -5
All the time, but we like it this way (well, actually I like it this way, she just likes that we're able to resolve the actual issues - but doesn't enjoy the actual fighting... so she says ne ways)
Actually come to think of it, sometimes by the way she acts, it seems she's in denial, but I actually like it this way that she's in denial... for some reason...
... Ne ways as the saying goes; "Couples who don't fight, don't know each other"
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Post by meep on May 22, 2009 10:27:19 GMT -5
^ It's nice to see you get along... @ That vid... WHUT THE!? ))<>(( We get along with a funny (as in odd, but take the other meaning if you will) sort of humour. Slut, motherf*cker, c*unt, bitch, baish are all endearing terms we use. Eg: I love you so much you little slut. Thats right. Wonder all you will, just telling it like it is.
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Post by celltocell on May 22, 2009 10:41:48 GMT -5
^ "i love you so much you little slut."
HAHA. cute.
as for aswering the topic starter's question........ yeah, i'd consider myself a feisty partner [verbally] when push comes to shove but then again, i find that many people are when they get upset with their s/o. doesn't make it right but it happens.
anyway yeah....definitely guilty of name calling but i've been called many things as well. that's as bad as it'll get..... i prefer to not argue or fight or call people c*nts or a**holes but it happens. i've held my tongue many times as well..............
none of the arguments have or would have resulted in any physical violence though and i'd prefer to keep it that way.
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Post by Subuatai on May 22, 2009 10:56:56 GMT -5
^ Sometimes physical violence can end up in some rather enjoyable, passionate, intimate, wild, and very satisfying love-making.
Not only that, but we also tend to forget what we were even arguing about afterwards, holding each other close even though we swore to kill each other only an hour or so ago.
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Post by celltocell on May 22, 2009 11:09:15 GMT -5
well "love making" after any argument or in the midst of one is always good. dont need a physical fight to lead to sex. great way to shut the other person up as well. it's like "STFU *pounce*" ^ Sometimes physical violence can end up in some rather enjoyable, passionate, intimate, wild, and very satisfying love-making. Not only that, but we also tend to forget what we were even arguing about afterwards, holding each other close even though we swore to kill each other only an hour or so ago.
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Post by Subuatai on May 22, 2009 11:19:24 GMT -5
Heh you know it hun! My wife does that very well "STFU *pounce*"! She has also found out about the fact that after love-making I tend to be nothing but a helpless cuddly teddy bear after it... ok that's embarassing. Maybe we should not continue o.O Yes fiesty partners; need 'em!
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Post by i move the stars for no one on May 22, 2009 11:31:22 GMT -5
we play pretty hard.don't really want to go into detail,but we both know where the line is drawn.i personally think it's fun,no dfferent than any other game of skill we might play,and i really like not being treated as a delicate flower but as a force to be reckoned with.
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Post by rob on May 22, 2009 11:45:42 GMT -5
my parents still fight and crack racist jokes at each other..... which is kinda cute.
i'm sure playfighting/banter is a part of any healthy relationship.
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Post by palaver on May 22, 2009 12:26:12 GMT -5
Arousal is physiologically indistinguishable from anger. That's why our confused brains follow through with make-up sex.
For this reason some couples can't be physically intimate without fighting. Long term this can escalate to violence and that's not a good foundation to build a marriage on. That's where MDMA (ecstasy) came in. Psychiatrist from the human potential movement used it first to treat marital problems before their patients started sharing it with their friends at the club, which landed a drug with medical uses on the DEA's Schedule I (all uses criminalized) despite a court ruling....but that's a different thread (Legalize Ecstasy).
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Post by Subuatai on May 23, 2009 6:13:24 GMT -5
^ I have to disagree; I wouldn't say the ability to enjoy violence during love-making a bad thing at all.
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