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Post by palaver on May 23, 2009 11:12:46 GMT -5
^Fighting is something more genuine. The difference between violence and play is consent. So long as you have a safety word, your sexual play remains in safe boundaries.
Also, your partner must not be gagged. People forget that important detail.
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Post by i move the stars for no one on May 23, 2009 15:24:10 GMT -5
^Fighting is something more genuine. The difference between violence and play is consent. So long as you have a safety word, your sexual play remains in safe boundaries. Also, your partner must not be gagged. People forget that important detail. very true.it's so easy to misintepret a safety hand signal for general flailing.
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Post by waywardwolf on May 23, 2009 16:00:09 GMT -5
I knew a girl that liked to punch me with her palms, that was quite a lot of fun.
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Post by palaver on May 23, 2009 18:28:13 GMT -5
very true.it's so easy to misintepret a safety hand signal for general flailing. What to do if they're deaf... I could never date a deaf girl. Not that I play hard, but that's gotta be like rape. Unless she's way older and more experienced--but I might not go out with someone like that to begin with. They should all be temple virgins who speak only to God.
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Post by milkman's baby on May 23, 2009 21:09:29 GMT -5
Arousal is physiologically indistinguishable from anger. That's why our confused brains follow through with make-up sex. It's called an "anger bang."
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Post by i move the stars for no one on May 24, 2009 1:29:46 GMT -5
at any rate,as was said,pain as part of sex and plain ol' feistiness are two different subjects.to each their own.i think part of the reason some people find pain arousing has something to do with the way the brain is wired to receive stimulation,endorphins,all that jazz.yet another of my long,technical,scientifically enlightening explanations.
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Post by celltocell on May 24, 2009 13:28:05 GMT -5
haha... reading your posts along with everyone else's posts about their significant others makes me want a boyfriend sometimes. oh well! im fine single right now. Heh you know it hun! My wife does that very well "STFU *pounce*"! She has also found out about the fact that after love-making I tend to be nothing but a helpless cuddly teddy bear after it... ok that's embarassing. Maybe we should not continue o.O Yes fiesty partners; need 'em!
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Post by amalgam on May 25, 2009 7:41:05 GMT -5
^ Where do you live? ... because subtlety is WAY overrated.
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Post by celltocell on May 26, 2009 0:13:02 GMT -5
^ huh? im in the U.S. / East Coast.
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Post by ChickenSoda on May 26, 2009 0:29:05 GMT -5
What are you wearing?
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Post by TeeHee on May 26, 2009 2:10:02 GMT -5
What to do if they're deaf... I could never date a deaf girl. Not that I play hard, but that's gotta be like rape. My bf is Deaf. I'll acknowledge that dating a deaf person is not for everybody, but his deafness was never an issue with me. Anyhow, without getting into too much detail here, I'll just say that there's so much more depth in communication with Sign Language(or tactile Sign Language) than most people would imagine.
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Post by celltocell on May 26, 2009 2:17:53 GMT -5
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Post by amalgam on May 26, 2009 8:20:27 GMT -5
^ HOLY CRAP! US East Coast? v_v
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Post by palaver on May 26, 2009 20:45:35 GMT -5
My bf is Deaf. I'll acknowledge that dating a deaf person is not for everybody, but his deafness was never an issue with me. Anyhow, without getting into too much detail here, I'll just say that there's so much more depth in communication with Sign Language(or tactile Sign Language) than most people would imagine. You the kind of girl that goes for the quiet type? You probably like Korean films too right? But I do agree, alternative forms of communication does pique the interest because so much more significance is placed on the meaning. Like learning a second language, you actually pay more attention to etymology the second time around.
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Post by TeeHee on May 27, 2009 2:09:54 GMT -5
My bf is Deaf. I'll acknowledge that dating a deaf person is not for everybody, but his deafness was never an issue with me. Anyhow, without getting into too much detail here, I'll just say that there's so much more depth in communication with Sign Language(or tactile Sign Language) than most people would imagine. You the kind of girl that goes for the quiet type? You probably like Korean films too right? But I do agree, alternative forms of communication does pique the interest because so much more significance is placed on the meaning. Like learning a second language, you actually pay more attention to etymology the second time around. depends how you define "quiet". My bf, for example, in the auditory sense is "quiet". He doesn't vocally speak, but that doesn't mean he doesn't have a mind of his own! He could be very opinionated(much to my dismay ), and has his ways of communicating his thoughts very clearly to anyone(yes, including hearing people who know little to no Sign Language). He's probably the biggest social butterfly I know personally, and in that sense is far from quiet. While I've gone out with guys who were somewhat quiet, my track record by no means indicates such a tendency, as there's been much variation. And I've never seen any Korean films other than "My Sassy Girl."
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