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Post by Paddy on Jun 30, 2009 4:56:06 GMT -5
I can get dates no problem. I met my last gf in the library, but I don't find most women at my school understanding of the time and dedication I need to get to where I aspire to get to in life. Well, you know the rules; you can't have your cake and eat it. (stupid rule) If you're not willing to dedicate time to your girl, then don't get a girl.
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Post by fei on Jun 30, 2009 5:22:41 GMT -5
I'm always so skeptical about dating eurasian guys in asia.. most of the goodlooking ones are players. No one can refute me on this, it is so true. The eurasian guys are the ones who actually get action whereas the eurasian girls just enjoy the spotlight and attention, becoming aloof ball breakers. Just an observation/generalization about hot society eurasians in asia.. There are some nice and down to earth ones but most suck in personality.. really. Thats why there arent any eurasians on here from asia and who have actually grown up in asia. Ever noticed that? Theres a reason for that.. most of them lead priviledged high society lives and never go through an identity crises because they're lives are so F*&^%$# great. K, i'll be honest here.. i'm one of them. So you're getting an inside scoop here. Excuse me miss sunshine, dont let my rain spoils your day! Im one of example of EA who grew up in asian who you been ranting all day. I go to local school in Singapore and result to that i not white-washed and able to understand other culture and pick chinese language FIY im half malay!! True, Eurasian guy do get attention from girl compare to my full asian guy friend. Do that mean that they are player??? It take two hand to make a clap! I mean we dont point gun at the girl head you know! Anyway i think you talking about the EA guy at international school who's spoiled rich brat who are making the nice,polite and down to earth Local school EA guy look bad. I know few EA from International school and dated one girl and they are very spoiled rich brat with super big ego... I used to get sh*t alot before MTV came along and i was consider cool, But nevertheless im humble from experience and see a person by their character not by race.. @jenni stop dating jerk!! Of course we are all fascinated by the alluring presence and their wit humor charm and dress to appeal fashion, with tongue smiths coated sweetness full of flamboyant words, it daunting task to stay away them. As they drawing you in with their indulgence they make you dependent on them, and their power grows aiming at people's primary weaknesses,vanity and self-esteem. Anyway nice guy are boring, slow-wit,no sense of humor, weak and seriously pls call the fashion police.. I mean seriously no wonder girl swoon over player than nice guy but i just want to be friend type any day.. who is at fault here the EA player or girl?
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Post by Paddy on Jun 30, 2009 5:45:18 GMT -5
Wasn't it you who said all EA guys are womanisers?? fei, you're a wicked tongue-smith yourself ;D Oooh...you cunning linguist!
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 30, 2009 6:49:20 GMT -5
Neither are at fault, it's the nice guys who have a problem
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Post by fei on Jun 30, 2009 7:02:27 GMT -5
Hey paddy you supposed to be on my side? didnt the bribe money enough? Since when does my word is eloquence, all the language that i use relatively simple. And these word deprive from my heart, i do apologize if i create emotional disturbance, my word sound hypnotic or my choice of word is rhetoric.
I been wrong accused of being a playboy before due to the way i look, dress and speak.. Im calm, radiating self-assurance and not trying too hard. It is essential to be self-aware, to have the ability to see yourself as others see you. If that consider a trait of a player than i resign to fate to decide, for i nothing like that at all.
Flamboyancy has nothing to do with charisma it attracts the wrong kind of attention. And i always attract the wrong kind, maybe it my fault being naive or hopeless romantic. Maybe i finding myself in search of another?
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 30, 2009 7:19:33 GMT -5
If you are confident you tend to bear the label as well, the stereotype isn't restricted to EAs. People who feel intimidated tend to want to pin labels to make themselves feel better nonetheless. Besides who really cares in the end? If a girl is intimidated by you then she's obviously not worth your time. Then again, I like my brave girls.
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 30, 2009 7:23:23 GMT -5
fei - I was generalizing about eurasians who live in the expat world and benefit from the spoils of that lifestyle. Ofcourse you're not like them!! And not all of them are like that, i have some good eurasian buddies here who are fantastic, down to earth and well, normal. You started the thread to discuss the image of eurasian guys in asia as being playboys and womanizers. Well, i was giving an insight into why that is. And yes, i'm talking about the international school eurasians, i see you're familiar with what i am talking about.. i'd go ahead and blame them . ALTHOUGH, not gonna lie, the few local eurasian guys i know are bonafide players!! And if they arent players, they are hot on the dating game. You're probably the only one i know who isnt like that.
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 30, 2009 7:24:55 GMT -5
^Heh ESP the half singaporean EAs who come back to start a career in singapore.. its like they suddenly realize their appeal and go crazy with it..
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 30, 2009 7:30:06 GMT -5
^Heh ESP the half singaporean EAs who come back to start a career in singapore.. its like they suddenly realize their appeal and go crazy with it.. lol shut up jennifer. That's exactly what I'm doing
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 30, 2009 7:32:10 GMT -5
You guys make me miss my vacation in Singapore I'm no playa lah! Why you always think like this one? Hehe RagnarWho wouldn't really? ;D Haha
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 30, 2009 7:34:30 GMT -5
^Heh ESP the half singaporean EAs who come back to start a career in singapore.. its like they suddenly realize their appeal and go crazy with it.. lol shut up jennifer. That's exactly what I'm doing AHAHAHAHA i totally called you out.
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 30, 2009 7:53:31 GMT -5
Whatever I have lived a life of constant FAIL in Europe, so now it's time for a change lol. I deserve this!
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Post by fei on Jun 30, 2009 8:05:43 GMT -5
@jenni,Ragnar you guy make me proud to call myslf Singaporean. Hope there will be a Singapore meet up soon...
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Post by jenbrook on Jul 1, 2009 2:29:26 GMT -5
Whatever I have lived a life of constant FAIL in Europe, so now it's time for a change lol. I deserve this! You are so the enemy Ragnar haha.. I've been played by so many retournees But you're ok, i'm just not letting you meet any of my girlfriends haha! See, this is what i'm talking about.. Eurasian players in asia!! Fei has the right to be a little angry about that rep but whatever, thats just how it is. Aint nothing gon' change it. Uhhh i just realized i'm informing all the EA guys on here that coming to asia will get you lots of play. It will. Use a condom.
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Post by cm on Jul 1, 2009 2:48:06 GMT -5
You are so the enemy Ragnar haha.. I've been played by so many retournees But you're ok, i'm just not letting you meet any of my girlfriends haha! See, this is what i'm talking about.. Eurasian players in asia!! Fei has the right to be a little angry about that rep but whatever, thats just how it is. Aint nothing gon' change it. Uhhh i just realized i'm informing all the EA guys on here that coming to asia will get you lots of play. It will. Use a condom. That's what I was thinking the whole time while reading your posts in this thread ;D Ragnar needs to write a book on this!
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