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Post by Subuatai on Jun 14, 2009 15:16:40 GMT -5
Heh, responsibility, it's interesting how many blokes did not have their dads teach them that. Hmmm, gives me an idea for another thread, but I think I'll make it after work.
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Post by stray on Jun 17, 2009 14:13:32 GMT -5
THUG LIFE
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Post by Groink on Jun 17, 2009 15:34:10 GMT -5
Holy crap. That website is my one stop shop for all my AZN PRYDE needs.
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Post by Shock on Jun 19, 2009 15:13:59 GMT -5
Hey, well I might as well introduce myself in this post. Basically I'm 19, single and an Australian born chinese, with the parents from Malaysia. What I've generally found in my relationships so far is that, being an Asian so immersed in Australian lifestyle, I find that Asian girls are too "Asian" (we don't have the same interests), while Australian girls are too "not-the-type my parents would get along with". The point is, I find that the girls I'm attracted to are usually Australian born chinese girls or half asian (eurasian) girls. Is this normal for most Australian/American born chinese guys?? I just find that it's much easier to relate to eurasian girls seeing as they understand what its like to live with both an asian and westernised upbringing....? I don't understand why they shouldn't.
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Post by fei on Jun 20, 2009 7:31:31 GMT -5
Take a look at robyn. She dating an asian guy, and they look happy together.
Off topic awhile, i dont get if an EA decided to date white person, he/she is a sellout? I dated white, EA and asian girl before. And yeah, EA girl will have alot of common with me. I do find white girl to be attractive and i dont find anything wrong or fear letting down someone to whom ever i date with.
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Post by fei on Jun 21, 2009 7:33:39 GMT -5
^ Im so sorry to hear that. It seem that guys, you run into is petty shallow. Beauty is just skin deep, true beauty is within and have truth in it. I would love to date a girl with great personality than a boring, dull model.
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Post by admin on Jun 21, 2009 8:26:33 GMT -5
^ Im so sorry to hear that. It seem that guys, you run into is petty shallow. Beauty is just skin deep, true beauty is within and have truth in it. I would love to date a girl with great personality than a boring, dull model. How about a model with a great personality?
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 21, 2009 13:22:16 GMT -5
^I think the chances of anyone meeting someone like that, are so slim that its dismissed as practically impossible. But from what i've heard from phil luk san, there are some positively lovely EA models in thailand .
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 21, 2009 15:22:34 GMT -5
It is pretty screwed up when people go for you just because of your ethnicity to satisfy their own weird little fetish.
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 21, 2009 21:02:47 GMT -5
Ah, but as eurasians, we are sometimes products of those little fetishes eh I think its absolutly fine to have a preference! I think eurasians dating eurasians is a wonderful thing and well.. why the bloody hell not. However, to consider one ethnicity and one ethnicity only, for dating/relationships/marraige, is limited and narrow minded.
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Post by fei on Jun 22, 2009 4:57:24 GMT -5
We are all victim to someone fetish. If seem people still in awe when they see EA person, and very much see us as desirable object!! Having taken for a ride alot,i became immune to it. Yeah that right!"fei the ultimate thrill ride" for all to use, but still, other have the cheek to call us guys playboy or player!!.It frustrated that they judge us before they know us, even from fellow EA girls (you know who you are). What so glam being an EA, if you're only for entertainment or a trophy for someone sick fetish!
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 22, 2009 10:45:59 GMT -5
Difference between little fetishes and real fetishes is very well explained by Pelle.
Like my mates used to think I had "black fever" cause I could see beauty in dark-skinned ladies while they could not - but I also found other girls attractive at the same time. So there wasn't any racial preference, I just thought dark-skin to be quite munchable.
Real fetishes is something else, most of the time it's very easy to tell when someone likes you for who you are, or if they just like you because you are this/that race. As for the latter - I don't think they even know they are turning us off with their *phile behaviour.
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Post by TeeHee on Jun 24, 2009 0:56:53 GMT -5
Real fetishes is something else, most of the time it's very easy to tell when someone likes you for who you are, or if they just like you because you are this/that race. As for the latter - I don't think they even know they are turning us off with their *phile behaviour. That reminds me of this time involving this group of Mexican guys who were fixated on my race from the get-go, as they'd hailed me over from way across the room while I was already occupied just to ask me about my ethnicity. I was a waitress in a restaurant at the time, and went over to them as I thought maybe they genuinely needed something, but nope, I was wrong, as I came to find out when I got to their table. So they asked my ethnicity, and I told them, which in of itself wouldn't be a huge deal to me. But anything and everything they said to me from then forth was only about my race, I thoroughly felt dehumanized. As the exchange progressed and they could tell I was clearly not pleased, they said "Oh don't worry, it's hot. Your ethnic origin is beautiful, don't be ashamed of it" even though I'm not ashamed of my ethnicity at all, nor did I imply it. If anything, I'm very proud of my heritage, but it's not my job to be some sort of poster child for it to a bunch of strangers who just want to reduce me to some object of whatever sick fetish they have. Even though I'd indicated that it was their fixation on my race that was the issue(and not my race itself), they just didn't seem to get it at all.
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 24, 2009 1:09:56 GMT -5
Haha, you said that so well My wife went through the same thing, and I don't think people will really get it. Such is life. But doesn't mean you can't be a one girl revolution yourself... Heh sorry, one of my wife's fav songs for some reason.
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Post by furbob on Jul 15, 2009 19:18:02 GMT -5
EA girls that play videogames, read cartoons, and eat shrimp paste.... they'll definitely date Asian Videogames = yes, very yes, as in Street Fighter yes Reading Cartoons = yes Shrimp Paste = nahhh, but other asian foods = yes Looks like it's an EA or Asian guy I was right~ Currently going out with an asian guy who I've known for about 11 months, but went out together last weekend
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