You can borrow mine for a bit... Ha ha! Mine are in middle school and just starting their own part Asian struggles. I have no good answer for them except for explaining how they probably feel based on my own feelings when similar situations happened to me and seeing if they are about the same. They usually are.
Seriously, go out and have every good adventure that you can now. You can travel, etc after kids, but it's harder because most of your money and time are wrapped up in their needs.
That being said, I still find time to take off for a week every summer by myself on the motorcycle. It just didn't happen until they started being excited about sleep away summer camp.
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I have a suggestion. ..I just tried Frizz Ease Straight Fixation and I found it to be nice.. but try Wen by Chaz Dean. It leaves hair smooth with no frizzies and makes it more colorful, often lighter, I think. That's really helped me with my struggles. Just 1 bottle and that's all you need. Also people tend to like me when I've been exercising a lot, tho, too.
I'm glad you and your kids are all having your personal time, as well!
It is respectable and rather normal to have one's own family these days, but I don't. I actually just tried out for a musical but didn't make it. My singing there was not as good as at home. I'm gonna take singing for $35/hour with a recital 4 times a year at a community arts place. I'm excited about that. I want to be a pro singer. I am 29, so it's a bit late to dream big about all the attention I'd've gotten otherwise.