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Post by ladystacey on May 27, 2007 11:00:37 GMT -5
I have dated a guy that was half black and arab before but basically people just assumed he was black. I agree with rmn, I don't really care for race but there are physical attributes I look for like I don't like guys with small eyes or very teethy, etc.
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Post by siggie_pop on May 27, 2007 12:03:12 GMT -5
As long as we click and I'm attracted to the guy I really don't care what his ethnicity is.
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Post by naia on May 27, 2007 13:01:45 GMT -5
If there is chemistry and if we're attracted to each other, why not?
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Post by catgirl on May 27, 2007 17:18:08 GMT -5
Hmm. Maybe. But I think I prefer them mixed black and white to be honest, cause Ive seen some really hot ones
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Post by chinesejewfool on May 27, 2007 17:18:21 GMT -5
Yes. My family's a little schitzophrenic about blacks and indians but that is their problem, not mine. In the past there have been comments tied to darker-skinned people but I find myself saying outright, "YOU're more immigrant than so and so. He's been here for generations." I could relate to that short Russell Peters skit about his father on the phone, getting impatient and acting like a redneck with the eastern european woman. Among chinese, there really is a stigma regarding black people. The same way chinese don't like indian and indian don't like chinese even though it's a bit petty. They can be so hostile though and unprovoked. I have cousins that are half eurasian (third gen i think) and half black in LA. Their ea half is darker than us... I never cared enough to ask why. My cousins then are darker too but they aren't any less than family. My cousins are second generation immigrants. Their ea mother originally from sg and then married a black man in the US 15 yrs her senior. There was not just the ethnic/race part involved but also an age difference that others in the family didn't understand. They're happily married for over 20+ years and it's only now that people are learning to just shut it. I've dated both blacks and indians but not long enough to call it a relationship. My family certainly knew nothing of it. My brother's case was a little different when he came out that he was dating an indian girl. There was so much pressure to break up. They eventually did (then I got mad at him) although I think they got over each other faster than I did. She was a really nice girl and I used to help him buy/pick out gifts for her. I think, CJF, you were getting at hostile comments from random strangers in society rather than family acceptance? I'm not sure. Personally for me and from what I've seen from others, it was harder for our family to understand. I also think that in indian families it's more of a dead end than in blacks. You know, I'm just curious, that's all. The whole Asian and White thing is getting boring, hahaha. Why not throw in a curve ball? As for me, I don't see why I wouldn't. Sometimes black women are better than Asians and Whites because they come from humbler backgrounds and don't have elitist/supremacist attitudes. I've dated black and Indian before and will do it again. And yes, the Chinese/Asian attitude towards blacks is disgusting. Treating them as subhuman people.
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Post by halfbreed on May 27, 2007 18:53:16 GMT -5
As for me, I don't see why I wouldn't. Sometimes black women are better than Asians and Whites because they come from humbler backgrounds and don't have elitist/supremacist attitudes. I find them to be the opposite. Like in their rap songs they always talk about how much bling they have and use the 'N' word a lot.
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Post by Ajeno on May 27, 2007 19:04:10 GMT -5
^Ha, c'mon
There are like more black-doctors out there than there are black-rappers.
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Most people will say they would go out with a black person or whatever race.But truthfully, most of them would never marry that person so.
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Post by alexis on May 27, 2007 19:26:33 GMT -5
Black girls are cute, and i've heard they have mad stamina?? i definetly wouldnt mind dating one,even getting married ^^ asian + caucasian + african blood.what a wonderful mix, the kids will look beautiful!
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Post by avax on May 27, 2007 19:31:05 GMT -5
^Are you kidding me?
Sexual stamina and looks are all you can come up with when it comes to a darker-skinned spouse?
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Post by alexis on May 27, 2007 19:34:11 GMT -5
yeahaha but it wasnt only about that, i said they were cute also! not physically but concerning the mentality and behaviour..
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Post by avax on May 27, 2007 19:36:24 GMT -5
Hm. Feels kind of weird to be hypothesizing about them like they're the lost unicorn race when they're actual people in my family.
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Post by alexis on May 27, 2007 19:49:57 GMT -5
Hm. Feels kind of weird to be hypothesizing about them like they're the lost unicorn race when they're actual people in my family. ^lost unicorn race? sorry if my comments seemed weird and have offended u,i probably have expressed myself wrongly,but didnt mean anything negative though..the hypothetical part was only concerning the sexual stamina, as i have never dated one, but i do know quite a few..so the rest is really my opinion.
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Post by avax on May 27, 2007 19:54:22 GMT -5
Hm. Feels kind of weird to be hypothesizing about them like they're the lost unicorn race when they're actual people in my family. ^lost unicorn race? sorry if my comments seemed weird and have offended u,i probably have expressed myself wrongly,but didnt mean anything negative though..the hypothetical part was only concerning the sexual stamina, as i have never dated one, but i do know quite a few..so the rest is really my opinion. Nah, I'm not offended. Feels weird meaning they DO exist and it's not really hypothetical for others. I was also referring to the thread although I think it's a good one. People should think more outside the confines of 'eurasian', 'mulatto' and 'hapa', I think (even though this IS a eurasian board so I'm not sure what CJF means he's tired of the asian/white rigmarole).
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Post by chinesejewfool on May 27, 2007 20:13:14 GMT -5
We always have the asian/white unions threads...the famous Asian chick white dude threads lol..whether Ea's go out with other Ea's, or whites or Asians. Why not see how the board feels about races that are totally not part of them
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Post by chinesejewfool on May 27, 2007 20:19:06 GMT -5
As for me, I don't see why I wouldn't. Sometimes black women are better than Asians and Whites because they come from humbler backgrounds and don't have elitist/supremacist attitudes. I find them to be the opposite. Like in their rap songs they always talk about how much bling they have and use the 'N' word a lot. What country do you live in? I dont think you've met enough black people to make a judgement. But yes, the media portrayal does portray them in a negative light.
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