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Post by avax on Dec 31, 2007 16:17:37 GMT -5
Tempting but dangerous right now. Prior to current job, they were all dead. Dusty but mostly anatomically intact. Great for part time flings. We had a good time.  |
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Post by tbw on Jan 13, 2008 11:36:07 GMT -5
^ If you are up for something (and you can mange to find out he's not attached) then go for it! What are your chances of staying with the company and seeing him each day after your internship? Maybe re-read the 'Girls who approach guys...' thread  |
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Post by avax on Jan 13, 2008 12:54:40 GMT -5
Is it necessary? Getting sidetracked in the middle of starting out your career or finding a perm. job? Your position seems a bit unstable at this point and if this goes down like superman's burning underwear or a blimp that went wrong, why jeopardize your relations or desire to work in said company?
Not worth the investment or even the time thinking about it. Keep in mind men - older or younger - will take whatever they can get. Game - too easy. You came to play a different game. Or perhaps I am wrong?
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Post by daisypukes on Jan 14, 2008 9:25:54 GMT -5
Oh, I just remembered another dating a workmate thing that happened before the one I already described. This one was a coworker not a boss, I was vulnerable because of a bad break up. We had a thing and then I decided I wasn't ready to date so I started avoiding him outside of work and got him fired from his job so I wouldn't have to see him at work either. Yeah, I'm a bitch.
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Post by ConceptDesign on Jan 14, 2008 9:41:24 GMT -5
You just make stuff up.
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Post by daisypukes on Jan 14, 2008 13:05:37 GMT -5
Nope, I wish it wasn't true but alas it is.
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Post by browneyes on Jan 16, 2008 18:40:08 GMT -5
How badly do you want this girl/guy?
Because office romance sucks both ways, good or bad.
The gossips, the drama, the jealousy, the uneasiness, etc..............
If you can handle it go for it! If not please take a cold shower and find someone outside of the workplace.
Not worth it, unless one of you are planning to quit soon.
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Post by avax on Jan 30, 2008 16:31:24 GMT -5
There'll be better. Trust me. I think when I'm at work I'm a total cold hard bitch. I went to coffee a couple of times with someone but I don't process anything but work. The guys I work with are very pleasant though. But I prefer having lunches/going out with real friends around the block. Ie. people I don't work with. Apparently I'm going for a beer with the vp this friday. Okay.. I hope he changes his mind to something more simple. |
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Post by fumanchu on Jan 30, 2008 21:01:01 GMT -5
Well, it will be if you do nothing.
Put you career first. Don't jeopardize your work chances with this place by moving too early. If you end up back at the same company you'll get plenty more chances to see the guy (but i do agree that office relationships are bad news).
If something comes up with the other company or somewhere else, send the guy an email and ask him out for a coffee or lunch (you stalked out got his email right?).
Life is short. You obviously like him. Why sit around 6mo from now wondering "what if?".
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Post by ConceptDesign on Jan 31, 2008 4:08:50 GMT -5
Kyuree: you're an intern, he's hot... so go for it! |
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Post by dannyd on Jan 31, 2008 5:42:36 GMT -5
I'm not trying to convey that I'm any sort of stud. Far from. But as far as my life story goes so far, I'm in the very unique position of having 3 women at work like me at exactly the same time. I have to this point avoided putting myself in any sort of situation with any of them.
Although I did
1) Go to coffee with one who was ultra demanding and kept reminding me (I originally said we'll talk about it later) that I was still to give her an answer &
2) Got a bit drunk at the xmas party and danced a bit dirty with another one
3) Keep in regular contact with the third outside work but only because I truly do like her as a friend.
I'm not sure though why I'm avoiding it. Whether it is because I'm worried about it messing up my (very good) situation at work, or because I can't decide between them....
I think I'll just leave things be... it's not worth it if I'm not extremely sure.
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Post by fumanchu on Feb 1, 2008 19:44:39 GMT -5
aaw, thanks, lol, maybe I should write in my blog, not just post photos of buildings haha enjoyed your posts too. Thanks n good luck! |
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Post by avax on Feb 3, 2008 12:30:41 GMT -5
Don't do it.
Remember - cold bitch mode. No cookie, no icecream. I swear I'm going to end up ultimately with an accountant. Wondering - do you not think dating within your industry/field is a bit incestuous? Where everyone thinks the same way? Especially at an agency or firm. I mean we even layer on more or less the same mix of extra shredded cheese from home on storebought pizzas. I find it a bit weird. Like being with mirrors.
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Post by thesa on Feb 3, 2008 14:42:54 GMT -5
I think the saying goes: don`t s*** where you eat.
And honestly, don`t do it!!!
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Post by chad on Feb 4, 2008 2:39:00 GMT -5
Ok let's get back to the focus on Chad please can we.
Anyway it's really weird coz everyone is still telling me she likes me but I still can't tell for sure myself. So frustrating!
And I feel like I like her more and more each day.
I just want something to happen (or not) soon so I know what's happening.
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