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Post by halfbreed on Aug 18, 2006 2:19:31 GMT -5
When I was naughty, my mother used to cane me (I recall experiencing ' The Zebra' once [you know.. stripes all up the back]). When I was too old for the cane, I got slaps instead. Never really got in trouble from my dad, although I recall receiving a smack or two. Now I don't get anything ('cause I'm not naughty anymore). (But, if I feel something's coming, I can run faster now )
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frogg
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Post by frogg on Aug 18, 2006 3:01:18 GMT -5
I am not sure if what I received was a necessary discipline, but it's just good memories to me now.
I got punched with a fist from my dad in 5 or 6 different occasions, I guess I deserved it coz I was an evil delinquent. My mom chased me with a slipper in her hand, sometimes she succeeded in slapping my head and face with it, but I had the tiger move and got away most of the time.
I am sure my parents are both so proud of how I grew up to be now. I feel sorry for the troubles I made and got them really upset, but kids go through those phases where parents think s/he will really grow up to be a criminal or something if they don't discipline. Sometimes parents think too much and they don't know how to treat their own kids. I am not against physical discipline. I am of couse against any form of abuse by parents though.
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Post by rob on Aug 18, 2006 7:26:27 GMT -5
I was a good kid. But daddy still beat me. And so I'll beat my kids someday too..... at least, thats what they say.
*young vulnerable boy crawls under the bedsheet covers, cries himself silly and when the tears dry he re-emerges a stronger, colder, steely-sadistic serial-killer-on-the-cusp*
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Post by dela cruz on Aug 18, 2006 8:53:58 GMT -5
Parents never! laid a hand on me not even did i get a spanking, my parents especially my dad don't believe in punishing children physically. I wasn't a pain partly because I always got to do whatever I wanted. Hence I have never thought breaking rules was exciting because rules were almost non-existent.
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erinny2000
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Post by erinny2000 on Aug 18, 2006 14:48:06 GMT -5
When I was really bad I would usually get a spanking and then either sent to my room or the corner.
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Post by داود on Aug 19, 2006 1:33:45 GMT -5
I was longing for some discipline. Who needs permissive parents? Do you want to smoke? Take a cigarette!
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Post by hapalicious on Aug 19, 2006 10:34:34 GMT -5
^ Gosh, hapalicious. Must be pretty serious if cops had to get involved. At least you're part of the EAN family now. LOL, no, she never called the cops, thank god, just the firemen, hahaha, don t ask me, but yeah .... yippie !!!!!!!! we re family !!!!!!!!! ;D
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Post by i move the stars for no one on Aug 19, 2006 10:45:20 GMT -5
I was longing for some discipline. Who needs permissive parents? Do you want to smoke? Take a cigarette! word.my mother seemed to think that a blend of hypercriticism/shrieking like a fishwife was enough to balance out her not setting any boundaries or not enforcing the few she did set. Once or twice my dad gave my brother quite a working over physically,but only when pushed absolutely to his limit.my brother was a complete asshole when we were younger. Marie,don't feel responsible for the arguements between your parents-they were in NO WAY your fault.
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Post by rob on Aug 20, 2006 3:13:28 GMT -5
If you've ever suffered the ignominy of chauffering a mini-van, 6 failed promotions, a loveless marriage, the cajoling of erstwhile friends, and the distinct lack of $$$ and talent to realize neighbour Jones' lowest ranked dreams, maybe you'd beat your children too.
..... which (along with the spectacle of old man cowering in the bathroom corner) is the one shred of empathy that prevents many of us from killing own fathers. The lives people lead is often punishment enough.
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Post by ineffable on Aug 20, 2006 15:42:57 GMT -5
When I was naughty, my mother used to cane me (I recall experiencing ' The Zebra' once). When I was too old for the cane, I got slaps instead. Never really got in trouble from my dad, although I recall receiving a smack or two. Now I don't get anything ('cause I'm not naughty anymore). that sounds similar to me, though I never got cained, just slapped a lot by my mother...though it pretty much stopped in the 5-6th grade when I outgrew her. And then just a few times from my dad when I really pissed him off. The sad part is most of this was over school work. Never did any really bad things. But now I pretty much ruin run my own life. edit: If it makes any difference, I don't intend to ever physically discipline my kids
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Post by supersonic74 on Aug 20, 2006 20:24:10 GMT -5
whaa ...my mom never slap me..phew ..instead my dad did... it's like choose your weapon for him...a bamboo stick...slipper..his hands...ouch ..but sometimes I had it comin...did it discipline me as a kid...hmm no I only told lies ..just to prospone the beatin...eventually they always find out....and when they do..there's no way to run no where to hide.
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Post by Altan on Aug 21, 2006 14:47:16 GMT -5
Not that bad discipline, but I think that if I have to discipline which I really won't have to if the kids know how their father is. Just and fair. I think sometimes that Western Parents really don't get involved with their children and that they really let them walk all over them. Time to regulate or else you got a monster and a heathen.
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Post by ConceptDesign on Aug 22, 2006 8:47:02 GMT -5
Some of you mob had it tough! Sure I'd cop the strap on occasion but that was when I was being a right little turd.
And what is wrong with being a heathen?
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Post by saeka on Aug 28, 2006 5:18:34 GMT -5
I think my mum yanked at my hair lmao and my dad used to lock me outside and he pulled my ear too lol oh well thankgod my brother isnt my dad
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Post by ConceptDesign on Aug 28, 2006 10:55:39 GMT -5
^ you;re from NZ... a brother also being your dad is not unheard of...
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