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Post by alec3 on Oct 31, 2003 6:20:08 GMT -5
Haha. I've heard Japanese TV's really fun. I look forward to watching some when I go there, lol. Of course ... I don't want to go to Japan just for the TV. ^__^
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Post by xandra on Nov 2, 2003 16:39:53 GMT -5
Agreed, but sadly unattainable though. i went to a gay club a few weekends ago... sooooo many HOT guys w/ no shirts on.. TORTURE!
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Post by Platano on Nov 6, 2003 2:13:29 GMT -5
i went to a gay club a few weekends ago... sooooo many HOT guys w/ no shirts on.. TORTURE! Seriously!! Several of my friends and acquaintences are gay, and I tell you--some of them are just incredibly gorgeous. But when you hang out with them and find that some of them are more feminine than you are, it kind of forces you back to reality...*sigh*
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Post by Sensei on Nov 6, 2003 2:17:01 GMT -5
I should go to a gay bar and take some notes
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Post by thursday on Nov 6, 2003 2:17:49 GMT -5
i went to a gay club a few weekends ago... sooooo many HOT guys w/ no shirts on.. TORTURE! Wah! Hahahaha! Funny that you mention it, my highschool friend whom I met up with last week wants to take me to one next time she's in town~ She described the exact same way you did and she added two winks lol ;D
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Post by jefe on Nov 6, 2003 6:17:08 GMT -5
Seriously!! Several of my friends and acquaintences are gay, and I tell you--some of them are just incredibly gorgeous. But when you hang out with them and find that some of them are more feminine than you are, it kind of forces you back to reality...*sigh* Some of them can also be very "straight-acting" or macho-ish, perhaps for their work or just for their style. Some enjoy the fact that they can attract women. Do they create even greater frustration? Or do you hope that they will do something to turn you off to relieve you of your torture?
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Post by i move the stars for no one on Nov 6, 2003 22:15:22 GMT -5
lol i,like margaret cho,was kinda raised by gay men.my first bf was gay,when we met i udnerstood that,but then we kinda got together andit all got confusing from there.So yes,gay men can be hot,but my advice is look don't touch. lol when my gay friends and i used to go to gay clubs,they'd yell at me for taking a long time to get ready..."None of the men will be looking at YOU,girl!"Yet at the same time,it's almost like a competition for the gay men to see who has the cutest straight girl...i felt like a trendy accessory,like those little tiny dogs?
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Post by xandra on Nov 6, 2003 23:15:49 GMT -5
banana-creme pie: tell me about it!!! lol juniper: i know.. i felt like i needed to be extra stylish because the gay guys would actually be able to tell if my outfit didn't work.. hahaha.. i've never felt like a fashion accessory, BUT i was the one to talk to all the guys we didn't know, and helped one of the guys we were w/ to get another guy's number.. i've come to the conclusion that gay guys are so appealing because they're totally non-threatening. you can have your little crush and daydreams, but you know it's not real, and in most cases, there isn't all that sexual tension that gets in the way. no awkwardness!
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Post by SynRG on Nov 6, 2003 23:33:09 GMT -5
Wah! Hahahaha! Funny that you mention it, my highschool friend whom I met up with last week wants to take me to one next time she's in town~ She described the exact same way you did and she added two winks lol ;D Why don't you just bring her out with our crew? We're all hot guys, and we're very NOT gay!
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Post by Platano on Nov 7, 2003 4:39:59 GMT -5
Some of them can also be very "straight-acting" or macho-ish, perhaps for their work or just for their style. Some enjoy the fact that they can attract women. Do they create even greater frustration? Or do you hope that they will do something to turn you off to relieve you of your torture? Yea, I know that some act pretty masculine (as some straight men tend to be more feminine). I actually do know quite a few gay guys...and one of them (a family friend..and an older one at that) regularly invited me to see his gay men's choir, most of whom are older men, and most of them were neither good looking, nor flamboyant. By now, I'm pretty good at detecting a guy's sexuality--I can even see through the more "macho" guys sometimes. A couple of my good guy friends are...err...going through that transitionary phase where I think they're coming to realize that they're gay. *sigh*....I swear, in a couple of years, my life's probably going to look a lot like "Will & Grace."...
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Post by xandra on Nov 11, 2003 5:22:26 GMT -5
I swear, in a couple of years, my life's probably going to look a lot like "Will & Grace."... hahahahahahhaa i hear that!!! there was a year or so where the only guys i hung out w/ were gay. there needs to be a good balance.
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Post by gremlin on Nov 11, 2003 9:23:01 GMT -5
Will and Grace TV show is hilarious, ha,ha,ha. Banana-cream Pie's life will be surrounded by laughter. I had my Will and Grace moments too when I was in Toronto. I was living with 2 other girls and 1 gay, we spent hours on dinner table laughing in tears., 'till our stomach hurt
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Post by SynRG on Nov 12, 2003 0:50:14 GMT -5
I love how the topic of suspected EA celebs totally turned into a discussion on the hotness of gay dudes. Oh well... guess I'll let it slide since I was talking about it too, kinda.
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Post by gremlin on Nov 18, 2003 8:50:24 GMT -5
Gay guy friends are fun. They will not take advantage of the friendship (with girls) and will not cross the line. From a girl’s point of view, it’s not awkward to discuss anything with gay guys because they won’t put malice upon you. It’s like talking with a girl trap in a man’s body, ha, ha, ha. They also make good escorts when you’re out of a relationship (remember the film “my best friend’s wedding”). But you also have to watch him if he’s keeping an eye on your boyfriend, LOL!!!!!
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Post by xandra on Nov 18, 2003 15:51:20 GMT -5
Gay guy friends are fun. They will not take advantage of the friendship (with girls) and will not cross the line. From a girl’s point of view, it’s not awkward to discuss anything with gay guys because they won’t put malice upon you. It’s like talking with a girl trap in a man’s body, ha, ha, ha. They also make good escorts when you’re out of a relationship (remember the film “my best friend’s wedding”). But you also have to watch him if he’s keeping an eye on your boyfriend, LOL!!!!! hahaha... i once got a fwd about the advantages of gay friends, and one of the points was that he'll never try to make out w/ you when he's drunk, but you'll probably try w/ him. ;D and i agree.. going out w/ gay guys is a good way to avoid guys trying to hit on you..
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