Yingy
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Post by Yingy on Jul 15, 2009 21:04:51 GMT -5
I have never really gotten the chance to date a asian guy but it's not for the lack of trying I was always turned down because I was told I wasn't asian enough or to white and their parents don't like "Americanized" gals. Or they were so freaked out that I asked them out they practically ran away screaming Even my mom tried very hard to find me a asian dude and show my picture around, etc and they would be really interested but once they met me they wanted nothing to do with me because I had "opinions" lol or they were so dam nervous I had to leave before they shat themselves. Not putting down asian men at all, just wished they were more open to a gal like me their loss or so I told myself.
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Post by ashhfacce on Jul 16, 2009 14:08:16 GMT -5
Yeah, to each their own and most little fetishes are harmless. But when I meet a guy and he is constantly using words like "exotic" it's a huge turnoff. I makes me feel like imported fruit. And the guy becomes much creepier to me all of a sudden. If you are attracted to eas, awesome. If you are ONLY attracted to eas, not so awesome. That's exactly how I feel! People tell me that being called exotic is a good thing but the comment just leaves me feeling like some inanimate object. Or the comment "I like asian girls" Cool, thanks for clearing that up, because I was starting to get confused. I don't care if you like asian girls, obviously you do if you're hitting on me. Instead I'd like to know that you're attracted to me because of who I am, not what ethnicity I am. Obviously not all asian girls are attractive, which applies to any race. Anyways, I'm attracted to cute and good personality, why define based on ethnicity.
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Post by semasian on Jul 16, 2009 14:10:25 GMT -5
I don't like Asian, White, Black, Hispanic, Etc... guys. I like CUTE guys. Race isn't an issue. I find all races equally attractive. I find certain INDIVIDUALS--and not general categories--to be especially attractive.
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Post by ashhfacce on Jul 16, 2009 14:16:15 GMT -5
I don't like Asian, White, Black, Hispanic, Etc... guys. I like CUTE guys. Race isn't an issue. I find all races equally attractive. I find certain INDIVIDUALS--and not general categories--to be especially attractive. FEEN! Older sister. :]
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Post by milkman's baby on Jul 16, 2009 19:57:16 GMT -5
Most EA girls raised in western countries are heavily whitewashed (tho they will thoroughly deny it) and have a subconscious bias against Asian guys. Also known as "the CJF effect" <----------- I have an excuse.
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Post by jenbrook on Jul 17, 2009 8:53:43 GMT -5
^are you saying you're not into asian guys?
i am into asian guys, but they have to be very westernized, or international schooled, otherwise i cant relate with them on any level. the only thing is that i dont often get hit on by asian guys.. i guess they're more reserved about that kind of thing. so i've only dated a couple, briefly.
i love eurasian guys who have really chinese/japanese/korean eyes.. oh, i love em. mm mm mmmmm.
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Post by milkman's baby on Jul 17, 2009 15:31:10 GMT -5
^are you saying you're not into asian guys? False. I was pointing to my location as a hint. There are virtually no Asians here in Nebraska, so that's my excuse for not dating any. The EA girl with a "subconscious bias against Asian guys" standard doesn't apply to me whatsoever. I am probably the most whitewashed Eurasian woman you'll ever meet, and yet I highly doubt I could ever date a white man. I am secretly a little racist toward white and black people, so I couldn't go beyond being friends with one. I won't discuss that here, but I'm mostly only interested in Asian/EA or Hispanic men. Similar appearances make for similar social experiences, which means a lot more here in Nebraska than perhaps California or New York. Same here. A lot of the whitewashed Asians like me tend to be interested in white women only. I guess that is part of the assimilation process. The other ones are all foreign and can hardly formulate a proper sentence in English, so that's an instant turn-off for my whitewashed ass. That being said, you can probably catch on that I haven't had a good date in a long time. lol But I'm a young college student so I'm not really worried about these things right now.
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Post by helles on Jul 17, 2009 16:48:22 GMT -5
i'm actually going through a non-asian phase. i'm not into asian guys *at.the.minute.* but i'm not into the classic blond hair blue eyed white guy either - tho that's never been my type. everything inbetween i guess.
i mentioned that to my friend when he was suggesting guys he knew that i might be interested in. when i asked for non-asian male friends, he was shocked and told me he now viewed me as 70%white and 30% asian. uhhh ok. eventually i'll probably go back to being interested in asian guys, just not at the minute.
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Post by LaFace on Jul 18, 2009 9:58:45 GMT -5
Example of an E girl (Austrian) liking an A guy (Filipino background), for those that are interested:
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Post by ahliang on Jul 18, 2009 13:26:09 GMT -5
when i asked for non-asian male friends, he was shocked and told me he now viewed me as 70%white and 30% asian. uhhh ok. it s funny you mentioned because my "asian" friends tend to evaluate my asian/white percentage too...while to my "white" friends here...i m just plain asian. last percentage i got was last week: 80% asian 20% white...korean-evaluation. last chinese evaluation i got was 55% asian 45% white...whatever that meant haha! on topic: i wonder why these topics still remain popular on here given that 50% of the girl members here have/are dating asian or ea guys. at the top of my head i can already think of 6 recurrent posters that either dated or are dating asian guys...although the aversion towards asian guys that some asian/ea girls brought up in the west tend to have is somewhat true, i don t find it to be the case on this board.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2009 4:53:10 GMT -5
Same here. A lot of the whitewashed Asians like me tend to be interested in white women only. I guess that is part of the assimilation process. The other ones are all foreign and can hardly formulate a proper sentence in English, so that's an instant turn-off for my whitewashed ass. Yeah, I can't think of a time that I've ever been hit on or approached by an Asian guy myself. All the Asian guys I went to school with were pretty much only interested in white girls or Latinas.The only time they ever spoke to me was when they wanted answers to a quiz or something. Usually only black or middle eastern guys hit on me... maybe the odd white guy here and there (usually over 50 and/or homeless)
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Yoomy
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Post by Yoomy on Aug 15, 2009 5:04:39 GMT -5
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Post by rosadreams on Sept 6, 2009 9:50:11 GMT -5
Personally, race doesn't matter to me much and I'd date any race.
My boyfriend is Asian.
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