ozabc
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Post by ozabc on Jun 1, 2009 22:38:38 GMT -5
Hey, well I might as well introduce myself in this post. Basically I'm 19, single and an Australian born chinese, with the parents from Malaysia.
What I've generally found in my relationships so far is that, being an Asian so immersed in Australian lifestyle, I find that Asian girls are too "Asian" (we don't have the same interests), while Australian girls are too "not-the-type my parents would get along with".
The point is, I find that the girls I'm attracted to are usually Australian born chinese girls or half asian (eurasian) girls. Is this normal for most Australian/American born chinese guys?? I just find that it's much easier to relate to eurasian girls seeing as they understand what its like to live with both an asian and westernised upbringing....?
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Post by stray on Jun 1, 2009 22:53:23 GMT -5
lol
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nakanaka
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Post by nakanaka on Jun 1, 2009 22:57:10 GMT -5
Hey, well I might as well introduce myself in this post. Basically I'm 19, single and an Australian born chinese, with the parents from Malaysia. What I've generally found in my relationships so far is that, being an Asian so immersed in Australian lifestyle, I find that Asian girls are too "Asian" (we don't have the same interests), while Australian girls are too "not-the-type my parents would get along with". The point is, I find that the girls I'm attracted to are usually Australian born chinese girls or half asian (eurasian) girls. Is this normal for most Australian/American born chinese guys?? I just find that it's much easier to relate to eurasian girls seeing as they understand what its like to live with both an asian and westernised upbringing....? Hey Ozabc!! ;D I definitely understand what you mean!! I find myself attracted to eurasian people more often than to others also. I think that it definitely is about it being very easy to relate to other people... and two people having a similar kind of upbringing definitely give you some common ground. Although, being a more asian-leaning eurasian, I don't quite understand what you mean when you say that you find the asian girls "too asian..." Do you mean that they're very fobby?? In short, I wouldn't worry about being attracted to eurasian and australian born asian people. I mean, you can't really help who you're attracted to anyway
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Post by amalgam on Jun 2, 2009 1:50:06 GMT -5
Hey Ozabc, I understand what you mean by Australian-born Asian girls being "too Asian-y", reason being is because it's something they easily identify with, for example, you don't have Asian people in Asia being all "AznPr1de4LyfTilLIDiE!"... To your original thread question, I'm sure they do, can't really see what would give you the impression that they don't. : /
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terce
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Post by terce on Jun 2, 2009 2:41:23 GMT -5
yes. i love asian men! i like eurasian guys too, but i'm not really keen on Aussies. too bogan for me...
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 2, 2009 2:48:45 GMT -5
Yea, they do.. But i think the best way to find out is to test the theory in real life. Dont go using EAN girls as a test run, thats not what this forum is for
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Post by stray on Jun 2, 2009 3:10:24 GMT -5
wait, we're taking these threads seriously now? :\
uh, maybe his of a different variety than the norm, i guess. an actual inquiry. who woulda thunk it. anyways i think it all depends on the individual. we've all seen asian guys hook up with eurasian girls and vice versa. that all said, i think the original poster is a tool for writing off asian girls. especially for being "too Asian" of all things. even funnier since many eurasian girls are quite asian in their outlook and appearance. he wouldn't like them either by his own standards.
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Post by jenbrook on Jun 2, 2009 3:12:47 GMT -5
Maybe he is being genuine, sorry if i sounded harsh, just wanted to make that clear thats all Ozabc, if you think you would be more comfortable with an australian-born asian girl or a eurasian girl then you should go ahead and date them.. Just maybe dont expect a eurasian girl to relate equally to both sides of her heritage, if she grew up in australia maybe she doesnt.
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Post by stray on Jun 2, 2009 3:19:22 GMT -5
hey wait, we need a better balance of good cops and bad cops here. go back to being harsh seriously though, usually when it's the first post that asks a question like that, it's the same old thing y'know. at least that's why i'm harsh.
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Post by palaver on Jun 2, 2009 3:25:45 GMT -5
If we all said no and you gave up, then for sure you wouldn't have a chance.
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Post by Subuatai on Jun 2, 2009 6:41:52 GMT -5
If you think that way then it's quite obvious that you've only just met the TYPICAL ones. I don't like typical girls of any race whatsoever.
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Post by Paddy on Jun 2, 2009 6:53:04 GMT -5
Oz - by persisting with an idealised notion of romance, you are only closing doors on yourself. Not all ozabc girls are the same, and EA girls don't all fit a single mould. And it's not a good idea to use your parents as an excuse for dismissing 'Australian' girls.
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Post by jefe on Jun 10, 2009 13:11:34 GMT -5
I wonder what ozabc might think if he happened to meet an EA girl found him to be too aussie for her tastes, preferring a *real* Asian man.
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Post by ChickenSoda on Jun 10, 2009 13:31:43 GMT -5
Eurasian girls like Asian guys about as much as they like cereal.
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Post by ahliang on Jun 10, 2009 13:33:37 GMT -5
^ i m not too fond of cereals but what are you implying by that?
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