here's my addition to the hall of fame.. thats paul, one of singapore's biggest, most infamous players. he's featured in this month's IS magazine which is featuring all of singapore's most well known 'single, free, party' people.. the first article and the cover picture is my good friend and boss john bahahahaha.. he's so proud of it. i've just started interning at his company so i meet many many guys like this. but yea, two classic examples of the singapore EA playboy.
magazine article:
is-magazine.com/feature/solo-satisfactionwhat john has to sayThe Party Animal Half-Taiwanese, half-American John is one of the most prominent players in the social party scene here, having started the frolicking, invite-only TryBe nights at Mimolette on Fridays. He’s also now a partner of Elegantly Wasted, which organizes chic and trendy parties across the city at watering holes such as Loof and The White Rabbit. Having organized stints in LA since 19, john is pretty much the social swinger du jour. “It’s a very exciting industry to be in and changes literally by the minute,” says John of his love for the job. “I’m right on the front line on most nights actively experiencing what’s trendy and fashionable.” john tells us why he’s single and loving it.
How often do you party?
About five times a week. The promotion labels I work with do weekly Wednesdays and Thursdays at The Butter Factory and then FRESH Saturdays and B2 at Social House. We’ll also be starting a collaboration with Wave House on Sundays next month.
Tell us more about your wildest nights out?
God, I don’t know where to start! I’ve had some pretty wild nights. Ever since our Vibe team introduced the beer bong races and body shots to FRESH at Social House, not a Saturday goes by without watching two chicks make out or having the beer bong blast all over some girl’s face. It’s crazy to watch; I didn’t think Singaporeans had it in them.
What’s so great about being a bachelor?
What’s great about being a bachelor is that I can do as I please pretty much whenever I want. I personally don’t like having someone constantly all up in my business and nagging the hell out of me. Every night has the potential to be an adventure without reigns holding me back. I think being in a relationship definitely has its restrictions and just looks like a bland situation comparatively at this point in my life.
What do friends call you for your free-wheeling lifestyle?
A couple of my friends call me “The Lone Wolf” because I really never need company. I love being social and being around people, but at the same time I love going out and doing stuff on my own like hiking and mountain biking. I’ve always been pretty independent. Ever seen Legends of the Fall? Sometimes a dude just needs some time to do his own stuff.
Who do you usually hang out with?
I have a huge variety of friends but most are overseas-educated local types or expats who’ve lived in Singapore for quite some time and also abroad for an extended period of time. I also hang out with personalities like Allan Wu, Daniel Wu, Paula Taylor and Jason Scott–Lee. David Tao, Ronan Keating and Kobe Bryant have all stepped through some of my parties at some point in time too.
Do you make any apology for your lifestyle?
Nah, I’m pretty straight up about my s***. I’ve hooked up with my share of girls in my day, and for the most part, they don’t hate me. I never promise anything really, and my reputation usually precedes me. They know what they’re in for, aren’t looking for a relationship, and usually things are all good afterwards because there are no real expectations on their side.
Any plans to settle down soon?
Nah, once all of my best buddies are married, I’ll start to give it some thought. In the meantime, I’ll just keep lovin’ life.
What’s the biggest misconception about you?
A lot of people think I’m a complete d*ck because I forget names and faces really easily. I would think I’m a d*ck too. My memory is horrible, and chances are I met you when I was wasted. If so, I apologize. I’m not really a pr*ck—just ask around.
what paul has to say.. somewhat sweeter but a little less honest, i reckonThe Pretty One The first time actor-model Paul caused heart palpitations was when he appeared on the special Hunks edition of the game show Deal or No Deal. To open or not to open Suitcase #3? Even Hamlet didn’t have that tough a time making up his mind. Hearts will no doubt be beating erratically again when Polo Boys airs—though whether this has more to do with the sight of hunks in their trunks or the storyline remains to be seen. When we called paul and asked if he was single, we were given the rather cryptic answer: “I will be in two weeks’ time.” Hmm …
So what did you mean when you said you were going to be single in two weeks? Are you a serial dater?
I wouldn’t say I’m a serial dater. In my line of work, I meet a lot of people. Most of the girls are here modeling for a few months. So we all party and chill together. It’s just a matter of right time, right place, right girl, really! When I’m single, I have my fun, but once I find a nice girl who wants to be with me, I’m completely hers in return.
It’s Friday and you’re hitting the town with a couple of friends. Where can we find you turning on the charm?
My night time playgrounds are usually Le Noir for a fun pre-party vibe, then we usually work up toward hitting Attica. I have a lot of friends at these places and we get very well taken care of. Good times.
What’s so fabulous about being single?
Being single has its pros and cons. It’s nice to have your own space in a way and not be committed to any one person. You can have your fun without any qualms. On the flipside, loving someone and being loved is very special. I love falling asleep and waking up with someone special.
Have you been propositioned by a girl before?
Of course! It’s quite a compliment! It doesn’t always have to be the guy to make the move. It’s a very big turn on when a girl comes on to you.
Do you have relatives asking you when you’re getting married during Chinese New Year? Does it ever bug you that people think you need to be married for your life to be complete?
Chinese New Year, Christmas, birthdays and most recently, my aunt’s wedding! It doesn’t bug me. I look forward to getting married and having children—it’s just not happening now. I believe that’s what everyone is here for, it’s human nature to find a life partner and breed. So it’s only in due time, that some mini Fosters will be running around someday.
Would you date someone whom your friends did not consider attractive?
Yes. Not everyone finds everyone else attractive. Different tastes for different people, so a girl whom I might find attractive for more than just aesthetic appearances, may not be my friends’ cup of tea. n