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Post by hamstar on Jul 4, 2011 9:30:28 GMT -5
I have. It's hard to explain but there's acceptance of the other person without them having to prove themselves worthy. When I first met her I already knew she was interested in me, I didn't really have to do anything to impress her or game her in any way. There's a sort of feeling that "I'm at home" when with Eurasian women (not sure if this is how others feel). It's a comfortable feeling.
After we had sex she became really attached and that's where our relationship began. I was introduced to her friends and she was about to introduce me to her parents. One night after watching a terrible Jim Carry movie and making out on her couch I picked her up and carried her to her bedroom. For some reason she wasn't in the mood so I asked her what was wrong. She told me that she said she thinks she might be in love with her ex-bf. I was upset and told her it was over between us. She kept calling me non-stop for the next 2 week so I agreed to meet her once more at the restaurant we first ate at. It was a sad dinner and I didn't know what to do other than lie to her that everything would be alright. I chucked my cell phone in the trash bin and moved to a different area, never saw her again.
I'll admit that I miss the familiar "im at home" feeling of being with a Eurasian girl but I think in the end they are the same as all other girls, having the same hopes, dreams, and problems. Sometimes I wonder how she is doing.
Have you dumped another Eurasian?
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Post by bipoar on Jul 18, 2011 5:17:16 GMT -5
I don't necessarily think that you will find better mutual understanding if you're in a relationship with another eurasian but I do think that familiar background, similar values and similar experiences make it easier to connect with another person. But love also needs to grow and all these similarities won't help if the love doesn't grow and develop any further. It might be a good (better?) basis but you also need to be able to build something from there. Says someone who has never been in a relationship with another eurasian, so can't really say  |
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Post by Paddy on Nov 17, 2012 15:20:01 GMT -5
I broke up with my EA girlfriend years ago...2004. Haven't thought about much until very recently when I came across old pictures. And then your post.
It went sour between us - we were never meant to be a couple. It was the EA connection that we couldn't resist. And it sustained us for a good 5 or 6 months until there was more to us, as individuals, than just being EA and sharing a heritage that was more more in common than it would have been with another person.
I miss her actually. We've not been in touch, though I tried to friend her on fb a few years back, but she rejected me. She thinks I cheated on her, though I didn't. It makes no difference if we are in touch or not - we are in different places and have different lives now.
But that short time we had together - I never felt more EA. Never felt prouder to be who I am.
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Post by nepathaichinkypom on Nov 25, 2012 21:09:11 GMT -5
^ Hi Paddy! ^_^ I'm sure you'll figure out who I am in no time. It's nice to see you on here. This place seems pretty dead but I'm happy to have recognised someone who has posted fairly recently.
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Post by TeeHee on Nov 27, 2012 4:58:20 GMT -5
^I know who you are as that was the screen name you originally had way back when. I am happily engaged to be married soon, and incidentally, my fiance is kind of the opposite proportions from me with European-Asiatic heritage. My mom is EA and dad is full Asian, so I'm more than half Asian with partial european background. His dad is mixed and mom is full white, so he's more than half white with partial Asiatic descent. Since he's mostly white, he'll identify as white but he gets asked all the time if he's EA or has "something else" in him, in which he'll mention about that other partial Asiatic background. We originally met and connected 9-10 years ago over matters completely unrelated to being EA, but that experience does make it easier for him to relate to my experiences as a EA. |
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Post by nepathaichinkypom on Nov 27, 2012 8:14:47 GMT -5
Haha oh yes! Are you talking about back in the day when people still used msn messenger? Ha, I knew I couldn't remain mysterious for long! All the best with your wedding and marriage. Very happy for you!
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Post by TeeHee on Nov 27, 2012 13:15:48 GMT -5
I miss her actually. We've not been in touch, though I tried to friend her on fb a few years back, but she rejected me. She thinks I cheated on her, though I didn't. It makes no difference if we are in touch or not - we are in different places and have different lives now. No offense, but I would've done the same if I were her. With the exception of children being involved, I've become a firm believer that exes should not remain in contact. I've already been with two guys who had children and a guy with kids would be a dealbreaker for me not because of the children, but when there's a child, there's a baby mama/ex to deal with. I had to file a restraining order against one of them. And the only reason I didn't have to file one against the other was because, unlike the other one, she did not survive her suicide attempt. I've rejected all of my exes' attempts to be "friends" on whatever given social network. I don't see any good coming out of it, and it meant alot to me when my fiance unfriended and disconnected whatever contact he had with his exes. Haha oh yes! Are you talking about back in the day when people still used msn messenger? Ha, I knew I couldn't remain mysterious for long! All the best with your wedding and marriage. Very happy for you! Thank you  yes it was during the MSN messenger times, lol, haven't been on that in forever. |
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yes it was during the MSN messenger times, lol, haven't been on that in forever.