Do you dislike women?

[halfbreed]

I don't get how you can dislike the opposite sex and be straight.

[jefe]

Liking someone, and sexual attraction to them is not the same thing.

Do you equally have trouble comprehending how a gay man could say, prefer to socialize with women and dislike most men, but still feel attracted sexually to males?

I think a fair number of straight men do not particularly care that much for women.

[waywardwolf]

^^I agree, it seems gay to me as well.

jimmy said:

Yeah but this is the kind of bastard behaviour they like, because your friend as a male was essentially dominating her.

I was actually referring to the guys thinking I was a bastard, though I definitely have noticed that girls seem to go for indifference. However, usually only with too young girls that I'm actually indifferent to. I would try to act indifferent to girls I am attracted to, but I have trouble acting one way or another. I am what I am, I'm Paolo the wayward man. What was I talking about? Oh yeah, I just thought it was strange that my friends are fine with someone treating their girl friend like crap, but when I get a little mean towards a guy, they think I'm a jerk. It's not just when I lose my cool towards they or their friends either, they just generally seem defensive towards men alone. I'm losing too many friends this way, I don't have that many to spare.

edit: added an extra ^ for being slow on the draw.

[thekrez]

jefe said:

I think a fair number of straight men do not particularly care that much for women.

Very true.

[Aiko]

Yes, I do hate some women. Like some men, some women are crazy. Hospital quality crazy, especially when it comes to relationships. They function perfectly fine on a daily basis doing their jobs and being good to their loved ones BUT when it comes to a love relationships, they're jacked in the head big time. Men and women.

[Emily]

^Yet, men could do without relationships and still get what they want. Why bother with us mental women (and yes, I must agree, most of us are)?

[Aiko]

^Because men like crazy women and if he sees that you're sane, he would try to make you mental. And if you are mental already, he will act like he's suffering while a subconsciously enjoying every bit of your insanity. They're sadomasochists like that. There, I said it.

When I was perfectly sane and willing to commit in a relationship, an ex acted like he wanted the same thing, until he started to drive me insane. I didn't go insane, but he did get me fired up and I ended up bitching his face off and I think he enjoyed it immensely. I felt neglected while I was sane around him, but when I acted insanely angry, he was all up in my case and giving me attention. It was probably satisfying for him, mentally and sexually. At times I think he would've loved it even more had I cracked a whip on his ass. I bet he would've shrieked in sheer ecstasy while his words: "It hurts it hurts!"

There is a Chinese word for it that explains what I just explained PERFECTLY. Qian4 Zou4. Maybe Jenming can explain this. Or Jefe.

[Emily]

^I guess that makes men the nutcases. ;D