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Post by cm on Oct 4, 2007 0:16:29 GMT -5
rofl...Asian guys treat you like a goddess. White guys treat you like an asian wench. Its up to you which one do you like? You've apparently never read feminist Asian American literature  |
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Post by Ave` on Oct 4, 2007 0:27:49 GMT -5
Im allergic to feminist esspecially an Asian American one. Its a real decease with doctors and medicine prescriptions |
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Post by cairnsey87 on Oct 5, 2007 8:46:15 GMT -5
I have only dated one asian chick, didn't seem any different from my other girlfriends at all to tell you the truth... My current girlfriend tries to look asian eventhough she is italian, don't ask lol!
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Post by cheeseprata on Oct 9, 2007 17:05:18 GMT -5
For some reason I've only ever ended up with Asian girls.
Don't know why, it just worked out that way.
In high school, chicks never found me attractive to be honest.
It wasn't till I started going to Uni and met a lot of people from Malaysia and Singapore that I actually got told that my kind of look was more attractive to them. Came as a bit of a shock as it would if you were walking in a desert and came across an oasis.
Anyway...years later and although I'd date anyone, I still have a thing for Asian girls. I find the attitude of Malaysians to be very appealing and it's makes them a lot more attractive to me.
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Post by dannyd on Oct 9, 2007 18:19:51 GMT -5
I've dated one. A korean girl. I wasn't confronted with any sort of dilemma doing so though.
This is going to sound odd, and it truly isn't going to be a governing factor in anything, but it has occured to me that between Asian and Caucasian, any potential offspring will more or less end up just that. I suppose I could be wrong, I see Quapas on here like Jessica, swordcane and sass openly exploring that part of themselves. Of course it isn't important what they (kids) perceive themselves to be.... but I suppose a part of me is looking for something that is neither Asian or Caucasian. Strange? Probably.
Or perhaps I've just reasoned that because this girl I was talking about in another thread is actually Lebanese.
But you know the kind of thought this is. When it comes down to it. Race is not a factor at all.
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Post by Emily on Oct 9, 2007 21:35:28 GMT -5
^Where you decide to raise them might play an important role too. If you have a child with an Asian woman but raise your kid in the Western world, they'd still get to witness both cultures. In a sense, I feel that Western-born Asian kids have a lot in common with Western-based EAs and that the experience really isn't that marginal. Heh, I know you're just throwing that out and won't have ethnicity be a defining factor, but the EAness will still survive, should you ever be worried.  |
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Post by honeyviper on Oct 12, 2007 22:50:55 GMT -5
He *is* two years younger than me. I was right. But he's writing his bachelor thesis in Munich in a company there atm (he was only in Berlin for his exams) and he hopes they will give him a job afterwards. I have this really strange TALENT of liking guys who are about to leave the city or country... (before knowing they will)  . Anyways, I wanted to say lately I saw an Asian guy (probably Chinese?) w/ a white g/f (probably German?)  . It's seldom but it happens! Pshah! Go snag his number!!!!  |
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Post by penguinopolipitese on Oct 20, 2007 22:25:45 GMT -5
rofl...Asian guys treat you like a goddess. White guys treat you like an asian wench. Its up to you which one do you like? and how do eurasian guys treat you?... like an asian wench goddess |
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Post by LengLeng on Oct 23, 2007 20:19:41 GMT -5
I've never gone out with a full Asian but I think part of me would be a bit, well...intimidated I suppose. I guess I'd feel a little inferior seing as I can't speak any Chinese dialect and don't really know any of the customs or traditions, thus, to date a full Asian man (and inevitable meet his family) I'd be a little scared. It comes down to the whole 'half breed' thing really. I only get like this with Orientals though. No other race. Strange  |
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Post by greenleaf on Oct 24, 2007 1:35:06 GMT -5
I've never gone out with a full Asian but I think part of me would be a bit, well...intimidated I suppose. I guess I'd feel a little inferior seing as I can't speak any Chinese dialect and don't really know any of the customs or traditions, thus, to date a full Asian man (and inevitable meet his family) I'd be a little scared. It comes down to the whole 'half breed' thing really. I only get like this with Orientals though. No other race. Strange A little, but then again not really White culture tends to be more liberal these days, especially the more urbanised white people. In contrast, Asians still tend to be more conservative and homogeneous in their outlook when it comes to race and culture. However, even among Asians I tend to see a hierarchy of conservatism. The Japanese people seem to treasure their homogeneity the most, followed by the very nationalistic bunch of Koreans, and finally the Chinese. The Chinese are comparatively more liberal here due to the Communist influence and their vast diaspora around the world. Returning to your post, it would seem odd on a few points. Firstly, you're half Asian no? So it's a bit odd that you've not picked up at the very least some rudimentary Asian customs from your mum or dad? That alone should be enough for you to feel comfortable with an Asian guy and his family. Especially if that guy's a Western-born or raised Asian guy. Secondly, you would of course feel more comfortable with guys of other race (specifically white guys) because you're living in a Western society. Familiarity breeds comfort. |
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Post by Ave` on Oct 24, 2007 10:04:56 GMT -5
rofl...Asian guys treat you like a goddess. White guys treat you like an asian wench. Its up to you which one do you like? and how do eurasian guys treat you?... like an asian wench goddess lol, come to think about it I never tried eurasian guy. I find them very full of themselves...but if your theory is true im very tempted to try :B |
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Post by EA Observer on Oct 24, 2007 10:38:04 GMT -5
Familiarity breeds comfort. Familiarity also breeds contempt, as proven by the AF sellouts who despise AM just for being AM. |
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Post by EA Observer on Oct 24, 2007 10:59:53 GMT -5
The Japanese people seem to treasure their homogeneity the most, followed by the very nationalistic bunch of Koreans, and finally the Chinese. The Chinese are comparatively more liberal here due to the Communist influence and their vast diaspora around the world. The probable reasons for Japanese: Islanders isolated cultutrally and ethnically for most of their history. Korean: Invaded and controlled too many times by foreigners - including now. Chinese: From a large country and with presence in virtually all parts of the world. |
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Post by cjsdad on Oct 24, 2007 12:32:46 GMT -5
Familiarity breeds comfort. Familiarity also breeds contempt, as proven by the AF sellouts who despise AM just for being AM. You had me until the venomous use of the word "sellout". And "proven". Ok, maybe you never had me. They could have other reasons. |
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Post by Emily on Oct 25, 2007 9:50:18 GMT -5
I've never gone out with a full Asian but I think part of me would be a bit, well...intimidated I suppose. I guess I'd feel a little inferior seing as I can't speak any Chinese dialect and don't really know any of the customs or traditions, thus, to date a full Asian man (and inevitable meet his family) I'd be a little scared. It comes down to the whole 'half breed' thing really. I only get like this with Orientals though. No other race. Strange Rest assured that the parents of an Asian guy would still rather he date you than a full non-Asian girl. I'm sure your Asian parent has instilled in you some values/mannerism that are typically Asian without you knowing. It's not just a matter of being knowledgeable about culture and customs, although it does play a part. I've noticed that Asian parents will mostly scorn at one's form. If you don't greet them everytime you meet them, remove your shoes when you enter their house, offer to help out, acknowledge that studies are important, that's when you're in trouble. Once you know all that, it's pretty easy to give them what they want. Also keep in mind that should you ever date an Asian guy, you shouldn't beat yourself up over whether his family approves of you or not. Even if they do, they most likely will not admit to it anyway. My boyfriend's parents would probably rather he date a full Vietnamese girl and I've brought up this concern a few times with him. He just shrugs it off and he claims that his parents, especially his mom, are actually very protective of me. They just would rather die than say so. In the end, you're dating him, not his family, right? |
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