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Post by JohnCoolYoungHistory on Oct 17, 2007 4:45:56 GMT -5
This may be a disturbing thread considering I'm a guy, unless of course you are a Jay and Silent Bob fan. I brought it up in another thread - I was watching a Streetcar Named Desire and couldn't deny I think I'd go gay for a young Marlon Brando. Who would you go gay for?
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Post by truelies on Oct 17, 2007 6:06:21 GMT -5
*cricket noises*
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Post by halfbreed on Oct 17, 2007 6:24:41 GMT -5
Screw going gay, bis can have it all!
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Post by long on Oct 17, 2007 8:49:52 GMT -5
This may be a disturbing thread considering I'm a guy.... I was watching a Streetcar Named Desire and couldn't deny I think I'd go gay for a young Marlon Brando. -Only disturbing if you're straight, perfectly understandable if you're gay or bi. -The thought came to mind that this thread may just be an attempt to get the EA girls to display their bisexual tendencies which is perfectly normal hetero behavior, but since this is the second thread you've started concerning your Brando man-crush.... not that there's anything wrong with it. -I can certainly recognize another man's attractiveness, but sexual arousal has never been in the cards. For me: attractive men generate either mild jealousy, incipient rage, or at times a certain form of respect.
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Post by long on Oct 17, 2007 9:44:13 GMT -5
^ Jealousy doesn't naturally lead to hostility for you Zoff You've never the slightest desire to punch a good looking guy in the face when you see him with a beautiful woman? Not that I'm proud of it
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Post by swordcane on Oct 17, 2007 20:59:06 GMT -5
^Not that I agree with you anyway, but wouldn't that make him bi or pansexual, not gay?
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Post by alisa on Oct 17, 2007 20:59:59 GMT -5
^was that a serious comment? I really hope not because it's a very closed minded thing to say....does that mean that you apply that to females as well? Though admittedly, a lot of people I imagine share your view, which is a sad thing because I think a lot of guys can have sexual thoughts about other guys, no matter how small, but then feel like a freak just because it's not the 'thing' to do. Most of the guys I know are the most blokish guys you'll ever meet, but I've managed to get most of them to admit they've had sexual thoughts about other guys....it doesn't mean they're even gay in the slightest though. Not even bi. A thought is just that. A thought. If your partner 'thinks' about another person in a sexual manner, just as a fantasy, but doesn't actually do anything of the sort, does that mean they've cheated on you? Or if you think about running off before paying for a meal, does that make you a thief? Fantasies are just that.
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Post by alisa on Oct 17, 2007 21:02:42 GMT -5
Sorry swordcane, you hit post just before me. My above post refers to Gohan's. I'm impressed you know of the term pansexual though!! If anything, that's what I consider myself to be!
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Post by swordcane on Oct 17, 2007 21:08:38 GMT -5
Hehe, yeah, it's what I consider myself. I'm a pansexual pangender transgendered pre-op transexual soooo... when it come it attraction... it's all good to me ;D
Building on what you said, I really believe in something closer to "romatic gender preferance" than "sexual orientation". Sex is such a complex and varied thing, and I don't think it's what defines who you love romatically, but rather, who you love romantically influences who you prefer to have sex with. It'd be different if we used it soley for procreation, but we don't. I think a guy can want to have sex with a man but not want to *be* with a man, and it doesn't make him gay, that's just one thing he likes during recreational sex for whatever reason.
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Post by Altan on Oct 17, 2007 21:14:38 GMT -5
None...what kind of question is this? A knuckle sandwich amigo is what this celebrity will get.........a five knuckle friend back to Mexico. One Way! Joking! No Celeb comes to mind. Male that is. Not even Brad Pit and Leonardo Di Caprio who are to old for me can have a chance. That's not to say I like Baby Blondes.
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Post by alisa on Oct 17, 2007 21:23:02 GMT -5
Hehe, yeah, it's what I consider myself. I'm a pansexual pangender transgendered pre-op transexual soooo... when it come it attraction... it's all good to me ;D Building on what you said, I really believe in something closer to "romatic gender preferance" than "sexual orientation". Sex is such a complex and varied thing, and I don't think it's what defines who you love romatically, but rather, who you love romantically influences who you prefer to have sex with. It'd be different if we used it soley for procreation, but we don't. I think a guy can want to have sex with a man but not want to *be* with a man, and it doesn't make him gay, that's just one thing he likes during recreational sex for whatever reason. But at the same time, I don't think I could have sex with someone just because I love them romantically. Sexual attraction is a big factor for me, however, the way I see it is that I will be attracted to someone for the sexuality they exude as opposed to the gender they portray. Then the defining romantic/love side comes later when you get to know them as a person. Though I do understand that you don't neccesarily have to want to pursue a romantic relationship with everyone you find sexually attractive. That's why I find man on man action, particularly between straight guys, totally hot because it shows they're comfortable with their sexuality and imagine how free and open they will be behind closed doors (or open)!
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Post by swordcane on Oct 17, 2007 21:31:59 GMT -5
I don't mean romatically a specific person, more like... what turns you on in general will probably bleed over into what turns you on sexually, yet it's much easier to like something purely sexually.
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Post by Ave` on Oct 17, 2007 21:32:23 GMT -5
gay or just confused
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Post by alisa on Oct 17, 2007 21:35:54 GMT -5
I almost don't know what we're talking about anymore, but I think we're agreeing swordcane! ahahahaha....me tired.
You're only confused when you aren't comfortable letting yourself feel the way your body/head/heart want to and you try to fight it! (deep man.....ya)
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Post by JohnCoolYoungHistory on Oct 17, 2007 23:00:52 GMT -5
LOL at all of the responses.
Anyone ever seen Jay and Silent Bob's skit for VH1's "I Love the 90s" called "Dudes we'd go gay for"?
I was simply watching A Streetcar Named Desire and was like DAMN Marlon Brando is SOMETHING else. Had a huge admiration for his look and demeanor.
If I was gay I'd be banging all the gay dudes who hit on me instead of trying to hint to you all on some forum. Thanks all for your overly concerned comments!
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