Missing people...

[daisypukes]

I'm not talking about people who you were in a relationship with, I'm talking about friends. Man, most of the friends I left behind I don't miss at all. They were superficial friends and when I hear what they're doing now I really couldn't give a s***. But there're one or two people that I completely miss. But I can't see them because we live too far away now. I mean, talking on the phone is alright but it's just not the same thing.

[Mr Brad Pitt]

Manage to see them during your holidays, that's refreshing.

[jewbird]

Yeah, it sucks. I met a friend of a friend for coffee who's separated from his wife due to work reasons. That's just sad. People really need to prioritize better.

[saeka]

Maybe you should use a webcam ?:-D

[sass in a glass]

I'm a gregarious person who loves to interact with people. I found that moving away to different cities/countries has bereaved me of my old friends. Sometimes, not often, when I'm feeling nostalgic I think back to the old times e.g. early childhood crush, swooning over boybands, terrorise the city, late night drunken rants, the laughs, the cries, the arguments, things good/bad/etc...and wonder how on earth we managed to move on with our lives without ever seeing each other again.

There's a reason why I call them "old friends, acquaintances, etc" it's because the more I think about it the more I realise how times have changed us and how disconnected we all are.....we're not as close (no longer bond) as we once were and I think that I should leave it as is...in the past. I've grown up and moved on and I think it's something we all should be doing.

We all have a variety of circles in our lives. If we cultivate these we'll often find that when one particular social group disappears, usually others take up slack/their place and I think it's a natural sociological process.


Did I make any f***ing sense???