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Post by helles on Mar 5, 2008 8:07:48 GMT -5
she was probably embarassed you called her out on it, so most likely just a reactionary 'no'. you could've built up rapour and be more casual rather than be so direct.
i'm not suprised of the responses from girls, if you're all calculated in your approach and weighing up the possibilities etc. and being so .. mechanical? girls can sense its not natural.
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Post by thekrez on Mar 5, 2008 10:44:39 GMT -5
^^ Yeah dude that wouldve been kind of freaky. You shouldve said, "you know, you can look, but it costs to touch" Although that depends heavily on the way you say it to pull it off.
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Post by cm on Mar 5, 2008 14:34:05 GMT -5
Any opinions on this appreciated. I either committed a major f**k-up today or I confused my signals. I was relaxing at a campus park when this cute, bookish-looking chick walked past and we locked eyes and smiled at each other. I am 110% confident of this. She walked past and I did some mental calculations for the next 5 seconds. I don't think I was going to get a better buying signal so I made an approach by quickly walking up to her and tapping her shoulder. "Hey whats your name?" She smiled and replied "Jacinta." "Were you just looking at me then?" I ask in what was meant to be an accusatory but joking tone (c&f - I was hoping for a teasing reply like "What if I was?") "Uhh no!" she replied defensively. I didn't know what to make of it, so I released her and said goodbye bewildered. I was 110% of her buying signal, otherwise I wouldn't have made a move in the first place. Either I was probably too direct, or she was just teasing/being friendly ( ) and had no real interest. (also committed a cold approach on another chick shortly after but she was married ). Next time say 'it's okay. You can admit it. There's wrong with my face right' to start the convo from there. She'd probably say no no, then you could accuse her of being rude for staring playfully. She was looking at you. Don't second guess it. You're a sexy beast. You just fumbled it but next time you'll be fine. With that being said, GTFO of Australia and move to Asia. No need to be in white mans land to get your game on.
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Post by Tamy on Mar 5, 2008 21:50:39 GMT -5
^^ Yeah dude that wouldve been kind of freaky. You shouldve said, "you know, you can look, but it costs to touch" Although that depends heavily on the way you say it to pull it off. haha. this reminds me. I was out with my girlfriends from home a couple weeks ago and we were walking out of a club, and a bunch of guys in an SUV called out "How much?" (quite possibly the worst pick up line in history) I just flipped them off - but the followed us, so we had to run away. I don't know where these guys come off talking to us like that. Geez, I was a little tipsy that night and if they weren't in a car I would have hospitalized them ;D
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Post by honeyviper on Mar 8, 2008 15:01:23 GMT -5
I don't often think anything of a guy asking for my contact information. Maybe he wants a new study buddy; maybe he needs advice; maybe he's looking to commission an artpiece for his lady; maybe he wants to talk politics; etc. It's probably because I've seen friends who overanalyze and then it turns into some HUGE crushing deal. Generally, I meet a lot of people, so I try not to read into things too far. If there's zing! Then you just know, or I seem to.
To Floyd: and, I agree with Helles...women can usually tell when a guy is being mechanistic in terms of approach. It's like a red flag. Natural...even when clumsily executed, is cuter.
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