chad
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Life is not short, it's actually bloody long!
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Post by chad on Mar 18, 2008 5:09:30 GMT -5
So ok Chad bit the bullet and joined RSVP.
Great fun, like gambling on the horses (so to speak).
But anyway there is this girl who is "separated" but seems to be really cool and keen and wants to meet up at my place! She even sends me naughty pics lol.
I always thought it was bad to sleep with a married person but I guess if they are long separated it shouldn't be an issue??
Why don't people get divorced if they are long separated?
Would appreciate your advice guys cheers.
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Post by ChickenSoda on Mar 18, 2008 7:38:00 GMT -5
That's hot, do it.
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Post by ConceptDesign on Mar 18, 2008 8:30:27 GMT -5
Disgraceful.
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Post by Roam'n on Mar 18, 2008 20:22:05 GMT -5
I filed for divorce 3 years ago and it's still not final. something about having enough time to actually do it.. and figuring out child support things..
I am legally separated though. Which is an interm step; That means the divorced is initially filied but not completed. At least all those bad loans my ex got into after we separated will never be my responsibility.
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Post by avax on Mar 19, 2008 3:38:52 GMT -5
I filed for divorce 3 years ago and it's still not final. something about having enough time to actually do it.. and figuring out child support things.. I am legally separated though. Which is an interm step; That means the divorced is initially filied but not completed. At least all those bad loans my ex got into after we separated will never be my responsibility. May I ask what is the shortest time period possible for a successful divorce? |
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Post by halfbreed on Mar 19, 2008 4:14:27 GMT -5
Separated's fine.  |
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Post by Roam'n on Mar 19, 2008 9:41:53 GMT -5
May I ask what is the shortest time period possible for a successful divorce? In California you can't finalize a Martial Separation Agreement (a divorce contract that both ex-spouses sign and submit to the court after the initial filings) no less then 6 months from the the start of filling; and only if the court does not bounce any of the paperwork, since a judge has to review and sign off on it. Any other method requires a lawyer to do the filing, which will get really expensive. Its ok to stay separated... it's like being single in that there's no common-law property. I just can't get married again until it's finalized. But I'm in no hurry in that department. |
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Post by avax on Mar 20, 2008 9:51:17 GMT -5
Thanks, Roman. I'm pretty sure I've been lied to about divorce or settlement status in the past.
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Post by dapper on Mar 20, 2008 11:14:02 GMT -5
I'd rule that if the separation is one due to the protracted legal process of finalizing the divorce, then you have clearance to bed. However, if you get the sense that it's more a we're-trying-to-work-things-out or we're-having-a-break-to-see-how-we-like-it sort of separation, you need to stand down and move on to an eligible receiver downfield because as free from guilt as these two latter scenarios may seem, deep down you should have some moral principle that urges you to not be party to exploited debauchery, even though it would be hot.
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Post by Roam'n on Mar 21, 2008 0:24:45 GMT -5
^ yeah like dapper said. If there's no kids or property involved, it's very easy to finalize a divorce. There's even a short form for it. Otherwise there's something irresponsible about the person if they're still separated for years and years on end..
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