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Post by 2bob on May 24, 2008 23:52:13 GMT -5
stray, your brother molested you??! Did you tell your parents about this??!
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Post by 2bob on May 24, 2008 23:58:38 GMT -5
What is your relationship with your siblings like? Do you feel entitled to throw the closest available flower vase to their face when they don't show any compassion/ filial piety towards you/your family ? i do have some really good memories of my brother both individually and with our family,but basically were at each other's throats for most of our lives.it infuriated me that he was so completely disrespectful and antagonistic toward my parents.we were complete opposites,except for both being f**k ups as teenagers,and even then we were f**k-ups in different ways.his violence didn't stop until he got sick and went blind,and even then the change was slow in coming and he never entirely straightened himself out.his getting sick forced me to relate to him in a less emotionally charged way and to be perfectly honest took away a lot of the fear i had of him (even though he was younger he was very strong and had a violent temper and no qualms about throwing punches.or handweights.or steak knives)he himself said at one point that going blind and dying was the karma he was reaping for the sh*tty person he'd been,which was heartbreaking,though a small part of me felt like it was true. anyway,that was a bit of a ramble and i've made peace with all of it. so has your brother passed on?
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Post by Freecia on May 25, 2008 2:09:03 GMT -5
My sister and I have very different personalities, so we almost never mix well together. We fought ever since we were little, had a brief moment when we understood each other and became good friends. But as soon as she started dating, that fragile friendship went down the drain again. Of course, a lot more things went on during our teenage years that just made me decide to stay at a distance from her. I won't get into the details as it'd probably be a few pages long, but I stand by my choice of staying at a friendly, but distant relationship with her so I don't get hurt. She must've felt as I am because we never made the effort to re patch this broken relationship. Now we see each other, we'd talk, but subject remain strictly on costmetic, cltohing, the superficial stuff. It's sad that we're sisters but we're more like acquantances. Though, I think this is the best way so we don't hurt each other.
I do however, have a great relationship with. Our personalities are more similiar and therefore, we enjoy similiar things and have more to talk about.
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Post by straylight on May 25, 2008 15:21:31 GMT -5
stray, your brother molested you??! Did you tell your parents about this??! Yes... Don't really want to get into it, nor do I fault them about anything to do with that, but yes.
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Post by Miyuki on May 26, 2008 1:20:29 GMT -5
What is your relationship with your siblings like? Do you feel entitled to throw the closest available flower vase to their face when they don't show any compassion/ filial piety towards you/your family ? i do have some really good memories of my brother both individually and with our family,but basically were at each other's throats for most of our lives.it infuriated me that he was so completely disrespectful and antagonistic toward my parents.we were complete opposites,except for both being f**k ups as teenagers,and even then we were f**k-ups in different ways.his violence didn't stop until he got sick and went blind,and even then the change was slow in coming and he never entirely straightened himself out.his getting sick forced me to relate to him in a less emotionally charged way and to be perfectly honest took away a lot of the fear i had of him (even though he was younger he was very strong and had a violent temper and no qualms about throwing punches.or handweights.or steak knives)he himself said at one point that going blind and dying was the karma he was reaping for the sh*tty person he'd been,which was heartbreaking,though a small part of me felt like it was true. anyway,that was a bit of a ramble and i've made peace with all of it. Wow, I'm sorry to hear about what happened to your brother. My brother used to bully me a lot when we were kids, but we were super close at the same time. He feels so guilty about that aspect of our childhood. That's one thing I hope to never have happen in my family if we ever have kids. Violence between siblings is so common, and so sad. I felt so helpless in that situation. stray, it's pretty common for kids to do that kind of stuff to animals. don't beat yourself up about it.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 9, 2008 3:20:13 GMT -5
I don't actually have a lot of problems to my brother. I just feel that the only thing he is there for is to compare race. I don't feel that's the way it should be nor what is the reality. If it is the reality it means in the way that that's what people like to do when they see their loved ones, which I find to be a big issue. Maybe make million $
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Post by Aznlatina on Jun 30, 2008 11:44:40 GMT -5
Surprisingly, my bro and I get along very well. We both support eachother, help eachother out, and are blatently honest with eachother.
But we also annoy eachother as siblings should.
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Post by terce on Jul 1, 2008 0:21:44 GMT -5
i get along well wit mine mostly...just the occasional dramas. but i think im really lucky wit my siblings, i mean we can all be nasty at times, but mostly we get along.
stray...sorry to hear about ur older bro
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