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Post by penguinopolipitese on Jun 14, 2008 13:16:41 GMT -5
okay I'm thinking of changing jobs but the sticky thing is I will probably have to move to a new city. And the real problem becomes that I have a girlfriend here now and I'm not sure how it's supposed to go if I move.
Is that generally it? I'm not sure she can move as well... she's still doing school. Has anyone else dealt with that?
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Post by yongfook on Jun 14, 2008 21:45:01 GMT -5
:/
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 0:47:39 GMT -5
I don't think she doesn't love you if she stays.  |
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Post by rob on Jun 15, 2008 10:40:51 GMT -5
okay I'm thinking of changing jobs but the sticky thing is I will probably have to move to a new city. And the real problem becomes that I have a girlfriend here now and I'm not sure how it's supposed to go if I move. Is that generally it? I'm not sure she can move as well... she's still doing school. Has anyone else dealt with that? my solution: Just never ever get in a relationship in the first place. Makes it easier to say goodbye. There's also the added benefit of not throwing your life/career away. Of course back in the philippines, everyone you talk to will proffer the same advice on this topic. "Set it free, and if it comes back it was meant to be". I love that one. It's a really cool way of saying "Do nothing" *swells with patriotism* |
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Post by penguinopolipitese on Jun 15, 2008 16:27:09 GMT -5
"Set it free, and if it comes back it was meant to be". I love that one. It's a really cool way of saying "Do nothing" yeah I think they must having been thinking of a boomerang for that one. throw a boomerang away and it will come back to you... a boomerang |
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Post by xandra on Jun 15, 2008 17:00:31 GMT -5
how far would your new job be? it's definitely doable (bahzad and i have been long distance for two and a half years now) but obviously not ideal. figure out how often you would be able to see each other and whether both of you are ok with that.
you two seem really happy together so i hope you can figure out a way to stay together.
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Post by rob on Jun 15, 2008 23:05:44 GMT -5
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you: they're yours, if they don't: they never were.that's the way I know it... But that doesn't rhyme. How can it be true?! |
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Post by meep on Jun 17, 2008 1:14:38 GMT -5
just dont change jobs!
...tada...
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Post by ucantseem on Jun 18, 2008 18:38:54 GMT -5
yea.. been there, done that.. personally ive never seen a LD relationship work.. I moved 2500 miles away from my gf and her kid (not mine though) it was hard at frist but i needed to make the move to better myself and my chances in life..
bottom line.. do what you have to do and if it was meant to be then it was work out..
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Post by penguinopolipitese on Jun 19, 2008 2:14:45 GMT -5
well, i think leaving this job is a necessity. They just have no regard for their employees...
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Post by ucantseem on Jun 19, 2008 17:00:16 GMT -5
is it necessary to leave the city/area??
if there is no opportunities for you in your area/city then do it.. but only do it if there will be no regrets..
if it is so deep can she not transfer schools?
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Post by cheeseprata on Jun 20, 2008 5:23:30 GMT -5
I reckon it's possible if you have a finish line in sight. If the move is for an indefinate amount of time, then work out the details of when/if you can see each other. If not, then it's probably best to finish things.
I firmly believe LDRs can work but the grounds have to be set so you know what you're working towards. If she can join you after study, then why not. See what the both of you can handle and give it a try.
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