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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 6:45:49 GMT -5
I understand this Thread may need to be locked.
I feel that people are actually the ones spamming and just making fun of my writing skills.
If they are pretending, the mod team shouldn't be worried about me and should be worried more about them.
Please, tell me, what is wrong on terms that I be kicked off. I may not come on here much, anyway. Lately, I just answer questions. I might post a thread that asks a basic question, like what is your experience as an EA, but that's about it, now. People just act like they want to keep beating on me, and I think they are the ones who are wrong. They never can point to any post. I feel they are pointing to my ethncity.
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 7:11:58 GMT -5
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 7:20:03 GMT -5
That's why I have in bold as the main point: "What is the most important part of your experience in the outside world as an EA?" My answer to focus on is this: "Me: Hi! (Msg: I have this problem, with A things, but it supposedly helps me to be a better E is all.) E: Oh. (Msg: Well, I have a lot of problems being a real E, and I thought you weren't supposed to say that. Aren't you supposed to be different?? Well, I'd better let you go, now..)" Otherwise, I was hoping it was a given that it was hard for me to write about. I will try to make my main point stand out and not worry about too many details that often. I was hoping that one little Thread today wasn't a new big deal because the question is so basic and friendly. You don't have to answer, but I wanted to answer. I don't see justification in long answers being spam if it's all on topic. Usually, it's considered sinful, very unfriendly, to always post short answers at every online forum, however... Strange as it seems, online forums are a lot like books, except shorter... For example, I just skip over if I don't know much about gas prices or sports or the news. I don't find it a part of site content, though it has categories where it does fit site content. It seems that is the focus, when it isn't something everyone knows as much about.. So... I think people were talking about something else, still. I was just having a hard time making it more interesting, I mean, since this is such an important topic of discussion. Also, I don't find it that confusing. What was confusing about it?? EDIT: Aren't a lot of people addicted to reading? You know, like coffee for the morning? "Do you like to read?"  It's easy to notice, who likes to read, who doesn't, and when.. Maybe you're still grappling with certain issues you put yourself out for by your own choice.. ?
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 7:32:45 GMT -5
That's why I have in bold as the main point: "What is the most important part of your experience in the outside world as an EA?" My answer to focus on is this: "Me: Hi! (Msg: I have this problem, with A things, but it supposedly helps me to be a better E is all.) E: Oh. (Msg: Well, I have a lot of problems being a real E, and I thought you weren't supposed to say that. Aren't you supposed to be different?? Well, I'd better let you go, now..)" This is exactly the part I don't understand  People are not so much bothered by the length of your posts but more by the fact that it hurts our brain trying to make sense out of it  That's fair. I don't post in the relationship forum because I have no experience in that area  EAN is not just about race and EA issues. Most people here are pretty much done talking about the EA experience and just want to post about fun things like sports and movies and lolzkitteh.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 7:38:13 GMT -5
That's why I have in bold as the main point: "What is the most important part of your experience in the outside world as an EA?" My answer to focus on is this: "Me: Hi! (Msg: I have this problem, with A things, but it supposedly helps me to be a better E is all.) E: Oh. (Msg: Well, I have a lot of problems being a real E, and I thought you weren't supposed to say that. Aren't you supposed to be different?? Well, I'd better let you go, now..)" This is exactly the part I don't understand  People are not so much bothered by the length of your posts but more by the fact that it hurts our brain trying to make sense out of it  That's fair. I don't post in the relationship forum because I have no experience in that area  EAN is not just about race and EA issues. Most people here are pretty much done talking about the EA experience and just want to post about fun things like sports and movies. The post you do not understand was trying to introduce what was on my mind, but I am not successful, still. It is what it is, and it's most of what goes on in my mind. Sorry, I am trying to make it not hurt. Speaking of the Relationship forum, I've been having hallucinations of Jericho's avitar persona. I am hurt he has not posted recently and don't know why. What about new members who come to places on EA to post about the EA experience? Will it distract old members?
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 7:45:06 GMT -5
There are already many threads floating around EAN about EA issues like not belonging to any side or always being mistaken for something else. There used to be a member here who would point new members to those threads if they started a new one but they banned him 
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 7:57:34 GMT -5
Anyway, I see you started your own board. Maybe you should put your time and effort in that e-community and attract members who understand you, instead of wasting your time here where people don't know what you're talking about and are clearly annoyed by everything you post.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 8:31:15 GMT -5
There are already many threads floating around EAN about EA issues like not belonging to any side or always being mistaken for something else. There used to be a member here who would point new members to those threads if they started a new one but they banned him  I am sorry about this person being banned. Anyway, I see you started your own board. Maybe you should put your time and effort in that e-community and attract members who understand you, instead of wasting your time here where people don't know what you're talking about and are clearly annoyed by everything you post. --ProBoards has the function where you can make Groups. You can limit people by ranking to being able to use certain Sections. Unfortunately, I suggest that as a sort of solution. --Don't you think it's points off to think people are clearly annoyed at something I do? You shouldn't waste your time on this. If you are interested in what I say and then are disappointed, then that's a different issue. Feel free to argue my points, and eventually I may leave, besides.. Why would people think my posts are so off-limits.. I love to argue and am never really offended, I feel. I don't feel that's showing off because I've never been truly offended. I never get to feel much, I mean, you know? I think some people might really be upset about me getting in trouble for some reason. So, what are you upset about with me being EA?
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 8:43:49 GMT -5
Look, it's not up to me to forbid you from posting here. Also, I don't have any real problem with you because I'm not really an active member here anyway ( what happens to this board is not my concern ). I was just saying that you might feel more comfortable on your own board where you decide what issues to discuss with people who understand you.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 8:50:19 GMT -5
Look, it's not up to me to forbid you from posting here. Also, I don't have any real problem with you because I'm not really an active member here anyway. I was just saying that you might feel more comfortable on your own board where you decide what issues to discuss with people who understand you. I don't want you to think I'm just back-talk. I didn't bring up controversial thought, however. What I discuss matches EAN goals. There are members and mods we can ask, though... Which, it would be nice, if I was a mod, I would just say, yea we should discuss race physically, yadayada. I guess I'd like to see that happen first. The way some people talk sounds like it's a site that changed for the mods and that the goal is to kick me off just to make fun of my ethnicity and language. I still believe in full that you are upset with most everyone on this site for just not opening up, for wasting all your time. I list all the groups I'm in and made on my MySpace, which is my site on my profile here. You should join my e-community for its flexibility: socialissuesin2008.proboards84.com/ It has lots of categories that pertain to this site all lined up without anything in the way like the News. I don't mean to offend anyone here, so no one should take it in a different way to any individuals or anyone as a group. I do hope to build that e-community or start a better one.. I probably will do both.. Then, you could fit right in, then.. See, it's pretty difficult.
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Post by rob on Jun 15, 2008 8:52:02 GMT -5
Taking her to task for flooding, now that's a separate matter.... but attacking or banning someone for not making sense?! Holy sh*t, what century are we living in?
Before the witch-hunt escalates, may I ask all of you holding torches to think for a second and figure out why someone like Perzan would post like she does? Think about it. Do you think she's *trying* to be an unintellgible mess? Or that she's posting just to irritate you or everyone here?
If you can't figure it out, then I will gladly call you out for the idiot you are next time each of you post something stupid, ignorant or annoying in my opinion. Take some comfort tho that I act alone, and won't have the masses chanting behind me.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 9:03:57 GMT -5
Do you think person A is trying to annoy person B, a group of persons, or all persons? Flooding calls for organization. ProBoards has the option to put members in Groups, though I haven't tried it, yet.. Making people wary on social punishment at all boards (which everyone has the same patterns of acting at all the forums I go to) is taxing to the nerves concerning any e-life. I made a Group on MySpace and Facebook on discomforts of this: groups.myspace.com/onlinepillarsofsaltI still believe it has to do with most people online are from countries/states like Texas.. or Louisiana, etc.. I used to live there and my brain was completely a different thing then.. It becomes an issue if there is another crowd from somewhere like Florida.. Because then there will be a fight from them for a bad reason from my experience in school, but most people online have self-control. True, most people are from 1-London, 2-Australia, or 3-Texas, who are online, at different groups and forums. Taking her to task for flooding, now that's a separate matter.... but attacking or banning someone for not making sense?! Holy sh*t, what century are we living in? Before the witch-hunt escalates, may I ask all of you holding torches to think for a second and figure out why someone like Perzan would post like she does? Think about it. Do you think she's *trying* to be an unintellgible mess? Or that she's posting just to irritate you or everyone here? If you can't figure it out, then I will gladly call you out for the idiot you are next time each of you post something stupid, ignorant or annoying in my opinion. Take some comfort tho that I act alone, and won't have the masses chanting behind me.
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 11:32:14 GMT -5
There was a member here who was also a mass poster and wasn’t particularly liked here by some.
He decided to create his own board free of drama and attacks that were based on false assumptions about him. It became a place where he can interact and joke with people without insecure t***s jumping on him every time after he made an innocent comment or joke.
Maybe your board can create that safe environment for you and your e-friends too. I can see from your recent topic ( about the 4 minutes music video ) and other topics that you are constantly asking for approval and asking if you’re questions/topics are ok. You’re really making an effort to be considerate and it shows that you really mean no harm. But wouldn’t it be better if you were in a place where you didn’t have to that all the time? A place where you could just speak freely?
You‘re right. It will take a lot of work to get a new board started but it can be worth it. Anyway, I don’t mean to push you away but maybe you’ll be happier.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 15, 2008 12:07:54 GMT -5
Since I am supposed to let the others know how I feel since they believe people are just jealous I post on the actual EA cause. I guess other people flubbed and got drunk as an EA rather than using it for the greater good and now think it's obvious I'm not welcome because I don't take to this "new" way as a sort of "Breakfast at Tiffany" EA.. ? There was a member here who was also a mass poster and wasn’t particularly liked here by some. He decided to create his own board free of drama and attacks that were based on false assumptions about him. It became a place where he can interact and joke with people without insecure t***s jumping on him every time after he made an innocent comment or joke. Maybe your board can create that safe environment for you and your e-friends too. I can see from your recent topic ( about the 4 minutes music video ) and other topics that you are constantly asking for approval and asking if you’re questions/topics are ok. You’re really making an effort to be considerate and it shows that you really mean no harm. But wouldn’t it be better if you were in a place where you didn’t have to that all the time? A place where you could just speak freely? You‘re right. It will take a lot of work to get a new board started but it can be worth it. Anyway, I don’t mean to push you away but maybe you’ll be happier. It sounds like you think I'm just gonna waste my time here.  That kind of hurts "my" feelings and it'd be funny if I wanted to tell you that for some reason. ^ Yes, you create too many threads Perzan and it drowns out other posters which I know you didn't intend to do. Just create a new thread called "Perzan's Streams of Thought" in the entertainment forum and post most of your stuff there. I'll certainly post in your thread and I'm sure others will too. I think however the idea that you're mentioning on creating too many Threads, well, I only made 2.. 2? (just now, on the songs, and another on acting/modeling yadayada) is just kind of insulting to take the time to complain for no reason. Why not skip it? If you actually read what it was, it must have made you feel better. If you're all jealous, that's pretty bad. It's like you think it's a big deal to post something, but at the same time from reading yours it's like you don't at all. You don't think it's normal to post about music videos and EA? It sounds like I'm in the right. I thought someone said they were fed-up on people taking their breath to write about how "they don't like me posting" because they feel stupid. It's funny, the mods don't care that you do that because they are jealous of me for some reason, too. I think you're overly mature sexually. I don't know what's going on in your head, but it doesn't make sense and isn't really appropriate. Well, I'ma go now bc this is just stupid.
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Post by Ragnar on Jun 15, 2008 12:24:15 GMT -5
Since I am supposed to let the others know how I feel since they believe people are just jealous I post on the actual EA cause. I guess other people flubbed and got drunk as an EA rather than using it for the greater good and now think it's obvious I'm not welcome because I don't take to this "new" way as a sort of "Breakfast at Tiffany" EA.. ? There was a member here who was also a mass poster and wasn’t particularly liked here by some. He decided to create his own board free of drama and attacks that were based on false assumptions about him. It became a place where he can interact and joke with people without insecure t***s jumping on him every time after he made an innocent comment or joke. Maybe your board can create that safe environment for you and your e-friends too. I can see from your recent topic ( about the 4 minutes music video ) and other topics that you are constantly asking for approval and asking if you’re questions/topics are ok. You’re really making an effort to be considerate and it shows that you really mean no harm. But wouldn’t it be better if you were in a place where you didn’t have to that all the time? A place where you could just speak freely? You‘re right. It will take a lot of work to get a new board started but it can be worth it. Anyway, I don’t mean to push you away but maybe you’ll be happier. It sounds like you think I'm just gonna waste my time here.  That kind of hurts "my" feelings and it'd be funny if I wanted to tell you that for some reason. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings or anything but personally I just don't want to be in a place where I'm not welcome. Apparently you have no problem with it, so good for you then. I was only making a suggestion. You seem very upset now so I'm just gonna leave it at this. Take care.
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