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Post by straylight on Apr 14, 2008 13:05:31 GMT -5
Not necessarily. Some very cool, beautiful women are single, and not just single, but single for long periods of time and a little depressed because of it. Simply for the fact that many guys think they're not single, or that they're too hard to approach. And the ones who do approach them are creeps with nothing but stupid things to say, so the girl is forced to say no a lot.
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Post by betahat on Apr 21, 2008 15:17:55 GMT -5
I've never had much trouble attracting non-Asian women, but I'm pretty tall and can frequently pass for white (or other - I've even passed as hispanic in some places, though I don't see it). But it's partly my own environment - I've spent a lot of time in places where there aren't many Asian women. This may not be an option for you, but sometimes traveling in other countries is a good way to test the waters. If you really like Latinas, you need to learn some Spanish and go travel in Latin America. Women are very forward there and as a good looking foreigner, half-Asian or whatever, you will automatically attract some attention just for looking different or exotic. As others have mentioned on this thread, I think a major factor is putting yourself in the right environment that is both "target rich" (i.e. lots of non-Asian women of the kind you are attracted to) and where your "exotic" look may even give you an edge. But speaking the language and dancing well can be important to sealing the deal as well That may be true for Latinas in the US as well as abroad.
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Post by straylight on Apr 21, 2008 16:18:56 GMT -5
I've wanted to go to Argentina since I heard that line in You, Me, and Dupree:
"People were just sitting around. It was beautiful."
The girls would just be a bonus to that!
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Post by betahat on Apr 22, 2008 0:36:09 GMT -5
Argentina has the most beautiful girls in the world in my opinion. They are not the best dancers but they have great fashion, are usually quite intelligent and cultured, and love to make out with random strangers on the dance floor (this happens all over Latin America- I've yet to see it in North America but maybe I go to the wrong bars!)
There were actually some cute Chinese girls too in Buenos Aires, some raver/club girl types that kept showing up at every club I went to. I don't know why or how they got there , but there seem to be Chinese people everywhere so go figure. If you do go I recommend that you steer clear of the "Tenedor Libre" or buffet style restaurants often run by Chinese. The only worse Chinese food I have ever had was in the "Barrio Chino" in Havana.
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Post by s on May 16, 2008 23:07:31 GMT -5
I live in the United States... plenty of white, black, and latina women all which I LOVE. However, all that seem to take interest in me are asian women. I have little to NO luck with non-asian women! I'm betting it's because the stigma attached to asian men has leap-frogged to me even though I am HALF WHITE! Anyone else have this bad luck? Or do I just suck with women? (I can see the jokes coming my way now). P.S. here's something to chew on. its probably your personality most asian guys are shy and nerdy, and asian girls are similar. hence why white nerdy guys also get lots of asian girls and not fewer black girls.
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Post by Altan on May 17, 2008 2:19:26 GMT -5
^^Dutch Guy from Aruba...older middle age type civil servant was going off on the Chinese and their everywhereness. I was like (in my head) if you let them have a foothold and colonize than yes they will be everywhere. Gotta regulate your populations. Dutch are stupid they belong with the dead...wtf are they dumb? Dumb is dumb why should the world have to deal with this?
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Post by kingkronik on Jun 3, 2008 8:36:42 GMT -5
I live in the United States... plenty of white, black, and latina women all which I LOVE. However, all that seem to take interest in me are asian women. I have little to NO luck with non-asian women! I'm betting it's because the stigma attached to asian men has leap-frogged to me even though I am HALF WHITE! Anyone else have this bad luck? Or do I just suck with women? (I can see the jokes coming my way now). P.S. here's something to chew on. I haven't read any of the replies, but all I have to say is stick to your own kind. Don't worry about the white woman we have plenty of beautiful asian and half asian women.
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Post by turboman on Jun 3, 2008 10:58:58 GMT -5
Now there's a fine example of a true Eurasian supremacist (assuming kingkronik's EA), you put me & my lacklustre pride to shame mate
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Post by halfbreed on Jun 3, 2008 20:16:54 GMT -5
KK, why is Asian our kind and not white?
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Post by turboman on Jun 3, 2008 20:51:38 GMT -5
The dude also said half Asian women. Asian's not my kind, nor is white.
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Post by halfbreed on Jun 3, 2008 21:01:39 GMT -5
But why not also half white?
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 3, 2008 22:26:48 GMT -5
So, I already know people complain about long answers, but there's nothing bad. It's up to you if you are interested or if I answered any of your questions. Not many people really respond to short invitations. I live in the United States... plenty of white, black, and latina women all which I LOVE. However, all that seem to take interest in me are asian women. I have little to NO luck with non-asian women! I'm betting it's because the stigma attached to asian men has leap-frogged to me even though I am HALF WHITE! Anyone else have this bad luck? Or do I just suck with women? (I can see the jokes coming my way now). P.S. here's something to chew on. Your picture looks like this: blond Chinese robots www.kuroneko-chan.com/echoes/images/chris_%2001.jpg(((I have a younger brother who is going to be a senior in high school next year, and he hasn't dated, yet. He had a girlfriend with white hair and bright blue eyes in Pre-K, in Boca Raton, the smallest and quietest, a little chubby and slow and never spoke, teacher's pet.. and a Spanish girl named Christina chased him when we moved more north in Florida, and that's the last of it. He made a friend when we moved from Florida, but then he didn't have as many. I don't know what's up, but it's my parents' responsibility, of course.))) You look pretty good. What's going on actually is the attraction to white hair and blue eyes. If you have any hair that isn't black, there's hope for you there. That should be easy since it's the Chinese with black hair, and the Africans are comparably more brown.. I use white Sheer Blond, Radiant Red, Pro-V Highlight, Frizz-Ease, and Time Renewal Shampoo, along with many many other body products. I don't use any dyes. (I'm 1/2, both parents with black hair. My dad has blue eyes.) My hair started turning blond before I used these shampoos. (It's from things like sleeping more, using more shower products, and mainly sometimes having brushing and combing a lot and blow drying and hairspray to slick it, etc. When I went to adult/teen ballet and use hairspray, that actually is what did it. Maybe, as ppl say, it turned me on. I mean, what would you expect..) This is right before I started using any color-special shampoo and conditioner in April/May 2007: It's even blonder now, but most of my recent pictures have a lot of acne still. It's more about you. I had a boyfriend in Jacksonville, the most popular boy in the class, with white hair and brown eyes.. this was in kindergarten. I had one with bright medium blond hair and birght blue eyes in 2nd-3rd grade, also most popular, in Boca Raton, from Cincinnati, Ohio. Focus more on making yourself more white like them, even if they are you know white only because of extreme sexual treatment from the parents.. Asian is not some other thing. It's white. If you want a white girl, decide if you want to be white, white Asian (like Chinese/Norwegian/Russian,) or just Asian, how you want to induce the girl. Can't answer questions until you know that. Girls accept dirty white boys with bad days but aren't sure about someone different. Boys accept me all the time who are black, Latino, and white, older or younger, really, right now, from online even. The women are going to tell you that it's your problem, and you're an ugly frog. That there is no racial phenomena happening in the US where Asian or part Asian women are 3 times more likely to go white than Asian or part Asian men. It's all your fault you misogynist pig! Well, I am 1/2 Chinese, and I am always the whitest person around.. so? Is it okay to say? The battle was Chinese and European vs. other Asian nations, unfortunately. My mom's ancestors actually lived in Indonesia for the past 500 years, though, and lots of people in Africa with lighter skin have developed blond hair and blue eyes. I think we should clean the term white up with this regarding Asians. I don't really like labelling people as black and white, though. It's obvious the other Asian nations are more white in many many ways usually. Chinese get tans, too, so it doesn't matter in that way, at all. I think it only has to do with choice, since a Eurasian couple won't force it on you.. I always just wanted to be white European or if white Asian was considered a whiter European. It's that simple to me. I don't know why, you'd think. exhale, how Asian or FOB do you consider yourself to look? I've been in the same boat as you. I do believe there is a negative stigma attached to AMs, but the females aren't entirely to blame. Basically you have to disassociate yourself from this stigma as much as possible, ie. make a good mix of Asian and non-Asian friends, dress smart, and if you haveglasses lose 'em. The other thing that I fould essential is learning how to sexually communicate yourself as a man, rather than an Asian (or part Asian). It's rather difficult to explain, but when I see a woman I like I look into her eyes. You're basically trying to trigger that female part of her brain that gets excited from such eye-contact, so that she sees you as a man, not as an Asian. Once you get that kind of electricity flowing it doesn't matter what race you are. I don't profess to be an expert in these matters, though, but that has been my experience and while I don't want to sound my trumpet, attracting non-AFs is hardly the problem it once was. You can also try relocating to cities or areas with a low Asian population. People usually develop a negative perception of other races through personal experience. By moving to a low-Asian population area, you won't meet as many women who've programmed themselves to auto-reject AMs. That's exactly what happened to me.. I look completely evenly mixed. White people say I look Asian mixed with white, and asian people say I look white mixed with asian. The two are different - it'd be enough to bring up the reservations of a girl against ethnic looking guys, though. I feel the same way, but usually Asians also seem to think I am not white overall, usu. @ xmas time, tho'. My brother is a slightly plump dark-skinned very Asian looking EA. He gets girls left and right....blonde WASP, black, Southeast Asians, Latinas, South Asians, and Italian. He's dated the United Nations. My mom answers the landline phone so he knows which girls NOT to speak to. Girls treat him like an Adonis. I don't get it. Wow, he sounds like the people in Africa with lighter skin who developed blond hair and blue eye recessitations. My brother is the opposite but very similar in that regard. He was a fair baby but was too quiet as he got older basically, but that's because we moved from Florida to Louisiana. Find some Eurasian Warriors in the past and meditate on what made them great. They had whatever woman they wanted whatever the type. But don't go to far and start drinking wine out of the skulls of your enemies. LOL Hey guys! First off I'm a 100% Chinese guy from Australia. Can I still post here? Secondly, nice site! Great forums as well. I stumbled on it when I was trying to find something on Eurasians. Anyway, this topic caught my eye. I think its undeniable that there's a sort of covert racism against Asian guys when it comes white women in the dating world. Anecdotal evidence on the street will show that there is a disparity between WM/AF and AM/WF couples. I think this is because of two things: The media showing us what their bosses prefer their society to look like, and the average Asian man himself. I think as a general rule, the 'hitting on' record of Asian men are woefully lower compared to every other guy's. Their Confucius-influenced culture of not showing aggression in these sorts of things is usually the reason behind this. The other thing is that it's a vicious cycle no? If Asian guys usually get rejected by white women, they would be less inclined to hit on them. And because of this, white women will say that they almost never get hit on by Asian guys and think that they're just not interested! That's why most of the EAs here have a white father and an Asian mother. P.S: Kyu-Ree, you seem to be a champion of sorts for the AM/WF combo May I ask why? Your dad's Asian maybe? Lol P.P.S: Even though the dating disparity still exists, I must say the AM/WF combo is increasing lately. I've seen enough around Sydney not to be too suprised by this previously rare combo anymore I also agree it is an economic thing. European girls battle if they think Asian is their white way or not, rather than personal interests. I live in the United States... plenty of white, black, and latina women all which I LOVE. However, all that seem to take interest in me are asian women. I have little to NO luck with non-asian women! I'm betting it's because the stigma attached to asian men has leap-frogged to me even though I am HALF WHITE! Anyone else have this bad luck? Or do I just suck with women? (I can see the jokes coming my way now). P.S. here's something to chew on. Well I dont really know if I can post here considering I am a full white girl ( a true WASP -- English/Welsh from Michigan) but anyway I stumbled across teh post because my friend and I were discussing the fact that you dont see many asian men or even eurasian men with white women. I mean for me personally, and this goes for many of my friends as well, I am totally open to the idea of asian men and especially eurasian men. I have actually dated a few in the past, I mean but the major thing that I find with it is that asian men seem to a thing for asian women, and I cant tell you how many times I've seen a super attractive asian/eurasian male out and then dont even give me a second look and just go straight for my asian friend ( and I mean i dont want to sound pompous or whatever but I mean I think im pretty attractive I get white guys and what not, I'm blonde blue eyed and average body I like to work out and stuff) . So I think that alot of the reason why you might not be getting attention from white women is because you just aren't going for it enough, like I think that there is this stigma that an asian guy (or even a semi looking asian guy) is always going to be going for asian women. I mean there will always be women out there who won't date outside of their race but from the women that I know that seems to be the exception not the rule. So I think as long as they know that you are interested in them and you guys are a good match personality wise there really shouldn't be a problem, just be assertive. Did they have black hair and eyes? Were they white or tanned?? Welsh/English? I know I am Welsh. Considering what other people have posted, I don't know I can say what you mean when you say you are a full white girl. I guess you mean your family is very European is all. My friends are all European with white hair and blue eyes, and I can say my family is just white. My mom has red/orange hair, and my dad is Irish.. I've never had much trouble attracting non-Asian women, but I'm pretty tall and can frequently pass for white (or other - I've even passed as hispanic in some places, though I don't see it). But it's partly my own environment - I've spent a lot of time in places where there aren't many Asian women. This may not be an option for you, but sometimes traveling in other countries is a good way to test the waters. If you really like Latinas, you need to learn some Spanish and go travel in Latin America. Women are very forward there and as a good looking foreigner, half-Asian or whatever, you will automatically attract some attention just for looking different or exotic. As others have mentioned on this thread, I think a major factor is putting yourself in the right environment that is both "target rich" (i.e. lots of non-Asian women of the kind you are attracted to) and where your "exotic" look may even give you an edge. But speaking the language and dancing well can be important to sealing the deal as well That may be true for Latinas in the US as well as abroad. I don't "pass" for white: I am white. KK, why is Asian our kind and not white? 'Because we are Asian, and Asian is white.. but it's like saying your Welsh... The dude also said half Asian women. Asian's not my kind, nor is white. It's the battle that I wish I wasn't so white. The point is for Eurasians to marry one culture, white or Asian, or something else like Latin American or black. If I met a Eurasian who looked like Johnny Depp with blond hair and blue eyes, I'd marry him.. Imagine, in general, I couldn't have kids with someone who is like Filipino. True, my 1/2 Asian is Chinese, so maybe that's why I'm like that. I can see myself marrying Chinese, actually, but not leaving the U.S. for China as much. If I did, it'd be fun because I'd be a blond Chinese, so maybe I should, even though I have always just been white European... I'm sure there's other cultures in the world like those people in Africa with lighter skin who developed white hair and blue eyes... But why not also half white? It depends on if your European is "white." If it's Spanish, they don't like to say they are white because I guess it's kind of stupid. If it's English, you might say that.
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 4, 2008 1:47:16 GMT -5
Well, who can you compare to this success of a beauty in the modern age... (same person in each pic) ...Maybe Eurasians have feared the expectations in life every individual personally must meet in the modern age... I feel all my ethnicities make me different and not ever one thing: Welsh, Irish, German, Dutch, French & Chinese-Indonesian & indian (tribe unknown for now still.) I don't think you're supposed to forget that ever because I never do.
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Post by helles on Jun 4, 2008 1:56:56 GMT -5
^ umm.. you do know in the second pic, she is holding a picture of a white person's face.. its not her, right?
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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 4, 2008 2:08:29 GMT -5
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