EA men and White (and other non-asian) Women

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

I live in the United States... plenty of white, black, and latina women all which I LOVE.

However, all that seem to take interest in me are asian women. I have little to NO luck with non-asian women! I'm betting it's because the stigma attached to asian men has leap-frogged to me even though I am HALF WHITE!

Anyone else have this bad luck? Or do I just suck with women? (I can see the jokes coming my way now).

P.S. here's something to chew on.

[cm]

The women are going to tell you that it's your problem, and you're an ugly frog. That there is no racial phenomena happening in the US where Asian or part Asian women are 3 times more likely to go white than Asian or part Asian men.

It's all your fault you misogynist pig!

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

I've actually dated two white women/girls for the first time last year at 22. One of them admitted she went for me because I'm a pretty boy and look borderline gay................................................ .............. and that she has a thing for that type of guy.................. Normally that shouldn't be a good thing for me......................

And the other one admitted to me she usually strayed away from asian guys (and in her eyes I am asian enough despite being half) because of the only ones she knew in high school - nerdy with glasses who people heckled to speak in chinese....

It's just I've dated far more asian-american women in comparison even though I am actively trying to switch things up! It's just I'm having trouble building any physical chemistry between me and a hot Latina chick with a fat booty. I think they don't want to be with me and my hereditary small penis, whereas asian-american women know what to expect because their ancestors have been getting it for thousands of years

P.S. all of the replies so far are fascinating because they're all from such different perspectives

[avax]

Hm. How small is your penis?

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

avax said:

Hm. How small is your penis?

I'd tell you how small it is if I truly believed it would contribute to this wholly educational discussion

Until then you must use your imagination!

[Roam'n]

avax said:

Hm. How small is your penis?

Sounds like an idea for a Poll thread!

Of course most guys are not going to answer honestly

[ConceptDesign]

Exhale85, the problem is you. I'm ea and I've never had any hassles getting white woman. Hell I've had more attention from whitey than the yellow peril.

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

I look completely evenly mixed.

White people say I look Asian mixed with white, and asian people say I look white mixed with asian.

The two are different - it'd be enough to bring up the reservations of a girl against ethnic looking guys, though.

[swordcane]

Here's a question: how self-conscious is this percieved problem of yours affecting your interactions with others? Are you more cautious, less confidant, etc? Do you think it's possible that you are ignoring more likely problems because you're focused on race? It sounds trite but, often, if you go into something thinking you'll be rejected, you probably will be because you'll end up acting like a person to reject.

(I think that make sense?)

[cm]

jadekp said:

Mabye it's just your approach?
Recently I've become aware of how difference races tend to approach a girl (huggeeee generalization I know but from personal experience it's true)

For example, white guys tend to go for the friendly/can I get you a drink/who are you here with approach
black guys tend to go for the direct approach like jus straight up askin you to dance etc.
and hispanics/italians/greeks etc jus stare and pull a funny 'come to bed' face lol (I'm laughing to myself here 'cause it sounds rediculous but the more I think about it the more I realise it's true! haha)

but I've never been apraoched by an Oriental/part-oriental. Mabye it's cause I suck? or 'cause Asian men can be kinda shy?

I duno. BUt mabye you should change your approach anyway, be more assertive, show your authority

Have a drink with me NOW!

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

Okay so switch up my approach.

Tigerlily, feel free to throw some suggestions my way! What usually gets you?

[Roam'n]

^Ethel Pics of your bro pls they need some inspiration lol.

IMO girls are generally more forgiving about looks then men are... In the end it's how the guy make them feel that really matters. A smart, genial, average looking guy will have more girls clamoring for them then a smart, good looking but unsure kind of guy. A lot of average guys know they're average looking, so they offset it by building up their personalities-- which helps a lot.

It's almost all mental. If we did a brain transplant with Zoff and Yongfook, they would still be the same person with the same outcome. Zoff brain in YF's body would still have a tough time with women.. while Yongfook's brain in Zoff's body would be making porn.

Perhaps I'm exaggerating but you know what i mean...

[JohnCoolYoungHistory]

You know, I'm actually quite fearless with women of all races, so please don't get it twisted! I just have different receptions from each ones.

I'm fortunate to usually end up with gorgeous asian girls.
When it comes to black women, I can't tell you how many large black women approach me on the dance floor and hump the sh*t out of me when I go to clubs.
But I get relatively no response from white women, and minor success with latinas.

I think perhaps my problem is I don't have an approach tailored for all the different types of women out there. But I still think asian girls are more physically attracted whereas white women simply are not.

Was wondering if anyone else has encountered this problem, but I suppose not, I'm all alone, and it's all in my head!

[Roku]

I have a similar problem, I know I'm a good looking guy but every women I meet already has a bf at the time ( and this isn't some bs their telling me its true) also I can't tell when girl likes me or not. Alot of latina's give me stares, asians well I don't hang out with any, white women have nonexistant taste for me =(. I think we need to find the RING, this will help us in our journey for white women lol.

[Altan]

Find some Eurasian Warriors in the past and meditate on what made them great. They had whatever woman they wanted whatever the type.
But don't go to far and start drinking wine out of the skulls of your enemies.