Post by i move the stars for no one on Oct 8, 2008 19:53:49 GMT -5
nono..don't know how to describe what i mean,what i said was very judgemental and i own that;but i think more than meaning that people who participate in either the seducer or seducee role are 'bad' people (an extreme judgement i don't subscribe to,ha) i mean that they're just people making less than stellar choices.a person can go about things the wrong way (yes,the 'wrong' way in this case being only my opinion) and still be great at the core.and i agree with you that it comes down to moral socializatio vs. internal drives. mercenary.
If you have feelings for the person, then you owe it to yourself to go for it, no matter what the circumstances. If it's just some random hot girl/guy that you'd like a piece of, why put forth all of the extra effort?