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Post by nemesisgalofdoom on Apr 16, 2009 15:39:16 GMT -5
@ Sub When is ur wife (shes ea*n right ?) expecting your baby ? I'm sure that shes going be so cute, as 1/4-ea ^^ I'm already curios for a picture. What's ur wife's mix if u dont mind me asking ? @ thesa thx  @ palaver haha, I've heard about this theory, its interresting. hehe, at least my daughter keep starring at me almost the whole time - this matter of fact is a cheer-up for me that I'm not that ugly ..... ;D  |
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Post by furbob on Apr 17, 2009 6:30:04 GMT -5
 Here is the half Japanese-Canadian bubby girl I had to look after for 10 mins while in countryside Japan I was playing around with her and said "your eyes are pretty" in japanese to her then she bursted into tears. Plus she tried to suck the camera and I had to pull it away from preventing my camera dying an un-waterproof death. So then she cried more and I couldnt find any toys for her. I am no good with babies, even halfies like me-babies. |
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Post by Subuatai on Apr 17, 2009 7:14:37 GMT -5
July, not that long to go  She's Swedish Chinese, I'm Mongol Ruskie. So our daughter is going to be wearing a viking helmet with a red-star on it, swinging a battle-ax while doing kung-fu on horseback - so people tell me.  That scares me, I don't know if I would be able to interpret what she means if she cries. Is it true however that you'll naturally grow some empathy as a parent for your own child? |
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Post by nemesisgalofdoom on Apr 17, 2009 13:12:51 GMT -5
OMG kawaii ! Shes similar to my daughter when she smiles - I dont have a adaequate pic now ^^ |
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Post by celltocell on May 9, 2009 11:02:10 GMT -5
oh my gosh, your daughter is SO adorable. i seriously would pinch the hell out of those cheeks, forgive me. No need to think so bluegum (btw: nice nickname, really ^^) - I used to hate kids (now I know why: because I was the eldest of 3 siblings and I hated them a lot because I felt very bothered by their noise) and never wanted one, untill I got together with my husband in the end of 2007, till I wass 37 - and its the best thing that have happend to me to have my Daughter ^^  |
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Post by celltocell on May 9, 2009 11:06:36 GMT -5
honestly, i find smiling and just being able to relate to them in someway..whether it be discussing cartoons or whatever the kid is into really works. the kids i've met stick to me like glue... my sister says i talk to them too much and am too friendly? they don't really seem to like her because she doesn't even bother with em. haha.
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Post by Subuatai on May 10, 2009 4:15:55 GMT -5
Its so close now, I can almost feel her, touch her, hear her, inside my wife's belly. I've even developed a strange new language I don't even know the meaning of.
I'm so young, this is so incredible. I just wish in two months time and then forth I'll be able to provide her with a good father figure.
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Post by nemesisgalofdoom on May 10, 2009 15:19:22 GMT -5
@ cel thx ... I'm glad that she got my best parts ^^ @ sub I know how incredible this feels .......I'm soo old, and never liked baby before ....... so, hEaVeN is also a 2nd generation EA ......right ? But in your case, its both partend who are EA, that is interesting ... ;D |
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Post by helles on May 10, 2009 20:21:23 GMT -5
i was at a friend's baby twins 1 year birthday party on saturday. and mostly hung out with my other friends baby (indian/swiss)... we were playing on the grass and what not and apparently, she could pass as mine as i had 2 other mummies at the party (whom i didnt know) asking me questions about her like she was mine!  |
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Post by milkman's baby on May 11, 2009 11:26:40 GMT -5
Yea its weird, kids are strangely drawn to me.. They always stare at me on trains and buses for really long periods of time, like their fascinated by my face or something. They'll look briefly at other people but they'll always come back to me and stare.. Maybe its because i stare back? Maybe its because i have a baby-face and they think that their looking at another baby? Who knows.. Well, I don't know what you look like, but I've read in some child psychology article that children, especially babies, like faces that are in clear contrast with features. For example, dark hair and eyes with pale skin, or light hair hair and eyes with dark skin. I guess they can recognize the eyes faster. So if you're a pale Eurasian with dark hair like me, perhaps this is a small theory behind their attraction to you. I really only like the pre-school and kindergarten age (4-6 y/o). Anything younger is too needy (I don't wipe asses, sorry), and anything older just isn't cute anymore (physically and socially). But don't shake your head at me, guys. I'm picky with adults too. I don't like anyone older than 75. There comes a time in the life cycle when you get so old that you go right back to being an infant (diapers, soft food, etc). That's why I'm killing myself at 50. |
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Post by radicalken on May 11, 2009 11:35:09 GMT -5
kids love me, grab me by the arm, ignore other adults, and make me play with them. weird sometimes, like some of my friends kids want me to feed them too, even when their parents are right there. i even tried to scold one for a sec the other day for this, "ugh! Go ask your dad!" but she still likes me. i can't fool them  |
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Post by Nikki on May 11, 2009 12:05:43 GMT -5
aww Helles, what a cutie!! Being the youngest in my family I never had much interaction with kiddies. Never did any of that babysitting stuff. But I was immensely flattered when one of my friends' cousins actually specifically requested me to babysit him a while back. First babysitting gig ever. We had a lot of fun together. It was him and his little brother. And they happened to be EA as well. I think he unconsciously at age four, felt we had a bond |
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Post by radicalken on May 11, 2009 12:32:06 GMT -5
i was youngest too, i don't know what these kids are thinking. and i never learn how to pick babies up right. i still get corrected. i'm not actually good with them, other than that they like me.
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Post by Nikki on May 11, 2009 12:39:24 GMT -5
Haha, perhaps they feel a childhood bond with you -- being the youngest and all.
Yeah I don't think I *really* know how to "properly" hold a baby either yet. When they're still little enough that you have to support their neck lest they DIE --- it frightens me. Oh, the pressure.
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Post by helles on May 11, 2009 17:36:35 GMT -5
lol yeah, the whole neck thing is crazy. my friend would dump her on me for ages when i'd visit her so she could go do stuff like take a shower.. and i'd keep repeating to myself "head up. keep head up" but now she's a bit older and alert she's tons more fun. although i woke up the next day afer holding her and my arm/shoulder was sore as anything. mammas end up with great toned arms!!
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