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Post by StrangeMagic on Aug 10, 2007 11:30:14 GMT -5
So because I'm bored.. it's crappy outside (raining like hell) and I'm just in one those moods.
For those of you with signif others whether they be bf/gf or fiances or husbands/wives.. How'd you know they'd be the one for you .. as far as settling down with them etc?
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Post by ladystacey on Aug 10, 2007 13:33:05 GMT -5
When you got those old people that have been married for 80 years and tell you, you just know. Yeah for me you just know, it's this feeling of content and certainty that I have never felt with anyone else. To find a man or woman that adores you and only wants the best out of life for you and wants to help you become a better person in every way and vice versa is someone you don't want to let go. Ok I need to go puke in a bucket now, that is almost to lovey dovey for me  but it's true;) |
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Post by thekrez on Aug 10, 2007 14:39:03 GMT -5
You obviously missed my how to keep a man thread. Ill repeat it for you since these four golden rules need to be etched in stone and cried from every mountaintop.
You know a girl is for you when
1) She cooks or cleans for you.
2) Gives you regular sex.
3) Isnt annoying or high maintenance.
4) Has above average looks.
That is all.
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Post by rob on Aug 13, 2007 2:10:44 GMT -5
So because I'm bored.. it's crappy outside (raining like hell) and I'm just in one those moods. For those of you with signif others whether they be bf/gf or fiances or husbands/wives.. How'd you know they'd be the one for you .. as far as settling down with them etc? well, if you're having to ask these types of questions (to yourself), he's probably not the right one for you.  my cheezy, less snide, response: a far better person than me once told me that love (the lasting, committed variety) was about embracing your partners weaknesses. i think it's virtually impossible to pull off, but if you can do that, maybe that might help answer your question. |
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Post by StrangeMagic on Aug 13, 2007 3:04:05 GMT -5
haha thanks for the responses. This question wasn't because I was unsure. I was just curious to see how everyone else figured these things out.  |
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Post by cjsdad on Aug 13, 2007 11:03:07 GMT -5
When you got those old people that have been married for 80 years and tell you, you just know. Yeah for me you just know, it's this feeling of content and certainty that I have never felt with anyone else. To find a man or woman that adores you and only wants the best out of life for you and wants to help you become a better person in every way and vice versa is someone you don't want to let go. Ok I need to go puke in a bucket now, that is almost to lovey dovey for me but it's true;) Quoted because it is true. |
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Post by StrangeMagic on Aug 13, 2007 19:44:39 GMT -5
i feel lucky then haha wow i'm a cheeseball this week! |
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Post by EA Observer on Aug 13, 2007 21:13:12 GMT -5
When they are ready to make that "special commitment" to me. ;D
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Post by daisypukes on Aug 14, 2007 5:20:49 GMT -5
We all die alone.
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Post by 0 on Aug 14, 2007 5:23:10 GMT -5
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Post by halfbreed on Aug 14, 2007 5:25:10 GMT -5
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Post by sim on Aug 15, 2007 3:08:58 GMT -5
When you got those old people that have been married for 80 years and tell you, you just know. Yeah for me you just know, it's this feeling of content and certainty that I have never felt with anyone else. To find a man or woman that adores you and only wants the best out of life for you and wants to help you become a better person in every way and vice versa is someone you don't want to let go. Ok I need to go puke in a bucket now, that is almost to lovey dovey for me but it's true;) Quoted because it is true. Surely there's an element of hindsight involved? You can't KNOW from Day 1...there are always uncertainties in the first few weeks... On the other hand, I'm sure there are plenty of "I just knows" which turn into relationships which don't work out..a friend of mine and her now ex-fiance for one. Maybe I'm just cynical, sort of. |
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Post by dapper on Aug 15, 2007 8:50:56 GMT -5
I used to think there's just the one out there someplace, and maybe for some there is, but I think it's mainly just about attraction & compatibility & admiration. If you're attracted to someone, you're attracted to them and that's not going to change as long as you are compatible. Common interests and admiration should exist after the infatuation phase in the beginning when everything is exciting and new.
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Post by EA Observer on Aug 15, 2007 11:24:10 GMT -5
Quoted because it is true. Surely there's an element of hindsight involved? You can't KNOW from Day 1...there are always uncertainties in the first few weeks... On the other hand, I'm sure there are plenty of "I just knows" which turn into relationships which don't work out..a friend of mine and her now ex-fiance for one. Maybe I'm just cynical, sort of. Yay.., our pseudo-14, um, now pseudo-15 y.o. is back!  Just make that special commitment to me and I promise that I might possibly maybe perhaps think you are right for me. |
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Post by dapper on Aug 15, 2007 12:19:40 GMT -5
um, eaob, your conclusions are serially incorrect from the things you read, lmao
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but it's true;)
Just make that special commitment to me and I promise that I might possibly maybe perhaps think you are right for me.