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Post by Ave` on Sept 11, 2007 8:26:43 GMT -5
When you got those old people that have been married for 80 years and tell you, you just know. Yeah for me you just know, it's this feeling of content and certainty that I have never felt with anyone else. To find a man or woman that adores you and only wants the best out of life for you and wants to help you become a better person in every way and vice versa is someone you don't want to let go. Ok I need to go puke in a bucket now, that is almost to lovey dovey for me but it's true;) sooooo true :]
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Post by dannyd on Sept 11, 2007 10:20:54 GMT -5
It's mutual It's all been spilt. Doesn't solve the bigger problem though. In fact, it makes it worse.
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Post by xandra on Sept 11, 2007 12:20:46 GMT -5
^ Yeah, I'm sure things are fairly complicated right now but at least it's all out in the open. It would have been terrible to look back in regret or to find out years later that you both felt that way and did nothing about it, etc.
Do you think you'll try to do the long distance thing?
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Post by Roam'n on Sept 11, 2007 20:18:13 GMT -5
LDRs are for married people separated for months at a time; like offshore oil-rig workers, army soldiers, and astronauts... otherwise I don't see it practical for any other reason...
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Post by dannyd on Sept 12, 2007 17:07:26 GMT -5
Aye long distance isn't something that is explorable in my opinion. Not at something new. She forced the conversation, she knows me really well and could see straight through me she reckoned. She then confessed a few things about her own feelings. I asked when she started feeling that way. She said about the time that it occured to her that if I were to call her from overseas to come join me, she would have. That's a big call. I wouldn't want to pry her away from this job she has landed. Not to mention I'm not sure how my future is going to hold up yet. So basically, I'm in the same sh*t. It just smells different But thanks Xandra, I've been wondering now that we've had to have all these serious conversations whether I made the right choice in spilling everything. But I think you're right. We're going to go to New Zealand together when uni is over in a couple of months. See how things turn out. We've agreed in principle that for now nothing has changed. Sounds poncy, but it makes sense here.
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Post by avax on Sept 13, 2007 13:00:23 GMT -5
It's okay. Different smelling s*** is part of life's natural highs. Let life take its course, and even though it makes it harder at least you're doing what you feel is right.
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Post by Guy in the white shirt on Sept 13, 2007 22:13:55 GMT -5
It's okay. Different smelling sh*t is part of life's natural highs. Let life take its course, and even though it makes it harder at least you're doing what you feel is right. I agree. As long as it feels right, and you're happy doing it for yourself as much as for her. Do whatever it feels that you're least likely to regret in the future. Lifes all about the fun of the paths you take!
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