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Post by Ave` on Nov 27, 2007 9:37:30 GMT -5
true guys are clueless most of the time...
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Post by Aznlatina on Nov 27, 2007 22:59:00 GMT -5
^ this is the kind of thing guys have to deal with all the time. Then I totally feel sorry for ya guys. There's a lesson to be learned here. ^^ HUH? He mentions he was single and he goes and says he has a girlfriend? Unless in between the time he got a girlfriend? That's exactly my reaction. I was like: WTF? I just equate it to game playing and lovin' the attention as the motive for the whole ordeal.
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Post by daisypukes on Nov 27, 2007 23:27:58 GMT -5
^That guy sounds like an assclown.
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Post by ineffable on Dec 3, 2007 11:51:23 GMT -5
I've been wondering of a somewhat related question;
Do you guys & gals normally have some sort of physical intimacy before declaring a dedicated relation or ask out/agree to go out first before other things happen? And what exactly constitutes asking out -> date? or a relationship?
And yes, I'm in uni. and yes its the former for me, but i almost always see the latter on television and am just wondering how the real world works (if there is to be declared such a way in such a chaotic universe) ;p
thanks for all the help folks, oh and to be just the tiniest bit relevant, i'm usually approached by women (physically) asking me out, and i'm quite fine by it. oh, and also, women trying to make it obvious that they like you is much easier to tell with some women (shy etc) than others (always flirty), yet you can tell either way - when the former talks to you a lot, spends a lot of time with you, perhaps makes jocular references to love and relationships, etc, and the latter, in my honest experience, will be quite flirtatious and touchy with you, usually in a more promiscuous place, ie her bed.
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Post by Phil on Dec 7, 2007 13:24:43 GMT -5
true guys are clueless most of the time... Clueless about what? Anyay I think its really cool when a girl approaches a dude. Its not easy and that means shes believes in herslef and ish. And 'm ussuall a bit shy.
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Post by chad on Dec 9, 2007 5:00:52 GMT -5
I've been wondering of a somewhat related question; Do you guys & gals normally have some sort of physical intimacy before declaring a dedicated relation or ask out/agree to go out first before other things happen? And what exactly constitutes asking out -> date? or a relationship? And yes, I'm in uni. and yes its the former for me, but i almost always see the latter on television and am just wondering how the real world works (if there is to be declared such a way in such a chaotic universe) ;p thanks for all the help folks, oh and to be just the tiniest bit relevant, i'm usually approached by women (physically) asking me out, and i'm quite fine by it. oh, and also, women trying to make it obvious that they like you is much easier to tell with some women (shy etc) than others (always flirty), yet you can tell either way - when the former talks to you a lot, spends a lot of time with you, perhaps makes jocular references to love and relationships, etc, and the latter, in my honest experience, will be quite flirtatious and touchy with you, usually in a more promiscuous place, ie her bed. That's a great question. When I was at Uni (college) we would "hook up" and then work out if we wanted to actually go out! Things appear different in the real world.
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Post by JohnCoolYoungHistory on Dec 9, 2007 23:36:59 GMT -5
they're all dirty whores
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Post by ds841982 on Dec 16, 2007 8:07:27 GMT -5
girls who approach guys are forward...
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Post by JohnCoolYoungHistory on Dec 16, 2007 20:37:00 GMT -5
girls who approach guys are forward... Forward dirty whores
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Post by long on Dec 16, 2007 22:28:13 GMT -5
Mayhaps you jest, but typically the women who approach me are the type that know what they want and aren't interested in wasting their time with the rest- just the opposite of your "dirty whores". In my experience, promiscuous females have no need to approach men; guys have no trouble identifying them and seeking them out.
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Post by JohnCoolYoungHistory on Dec 16, 2007 22:41:32 GMT -5
Mayhaps forward dirty whores know what they want is you
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Post by long on Dec 16, 2007 23:00:59 GMT -5
It would seem that I have to give all the credit to you in that regard my good man.
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Post by ChickenSoda on Dec 22, 2007 6:16:13 GMT -5
I consider girls who approach me to have impeccable taste Too bad no amount of impeccable taste can erase a bad case of the ugly =/
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Post by JohnnyUtah on Dec 22, 2007 16:30:32 GMT -5
Thoughts/opinions? Guys, do you consider women who approach you to be desperate/easy? Or are you thrilled that you don't have to make the effort for once? Girls, do you ever approach men you find attractive? Or are you afraid to? Or do you just prefer them to approach you? I've found in my dating life, that I do a lot of the approaching. I don't think that's because I'm desperate or unattractive. It just seems that most of the guys that approach me are unattractive to me in some way. I go for shy guys a lot, the ones that don't approach for fear of rejection or because they are intimidated, what have you. A lot of the relationships I've had have started with me approaching a guy, and they always seem so thrilled by it. Maybe that's also because my ideal type is somewhat unpopular with other girls, so maybe they were all so thrilled because they'd never been approached by a girl before...ever. I dunno. I've also found that I have to change my attitude slightly depending on where I'm living. In the West it seems far more acceptable to approach a guy, in the East...not so much. Anyway, share your thoughts/opinions. I don't think it wreaks of desperation, (depending on how it's done) but it does show alot of courage and blunt honesty. An "I don't really care what anyone thinks or how this looks" attitude is always very sexy.
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Post by viruslabrat on Dec 23, 2007 11:25:00 GMT -5
I'm too chicken s*** to approach a guy that really matters to me . I think it's because I care too much about what he'd think whereas if it were a guy I hardly knew I wouldn't care so much about the possibility of being rejected. It's much easier to go up to a guy that you may never see again anyway. But I do like to make it easier on a guy by giving him an opening in a conversation so he could take the initiative to ask me out (like mention a movie I wanted to go see or a band that's got a gig coming up). Trouble is striking up the conversation in the first place if the kind of guy your interested in is practically mute...
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