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Post by long on Dec 23, 2007 2:18:40 GMT -5
Zoff: does that mean you're agreeing with what I said as well?
- I would never video conference.
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Post by long on Dec 23, 2007 3:47:41 GMT -5
Idealists are a lot happier than cynics.
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Post by long on Dec 23, 2007 5:32:44 GMT -5
Eventually you just learn that you have to restrict your idealism to yourself (and even then you'll be disappointed), you can't expect people to be good or the world to be perfect.. but you can be good (if you try really hard). That's my present theory anyway - I'm not good .
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Post by long on Dec 23, 2007 5:49:49 GMT -5
But Zoff... you're perfect to me.. Get over yourself. Laughing at yourself is one of life's greatest pleasures.
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Post by jewbird on Dec 23, 2007 8:24:43 GMT -5
To you, in other words, men should only inquire about the nightly rate. And how much do you usually pay? More than you cost.
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Post by elle on Dec 23, 2007 10:51:10 GMT -5
hahahahahaahhahahaha...
hahahahaha..
oh man..you really went there...
you go girl.
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Post by jewbird on Dec 23, 2007 17:09:03 GMT -5
Sharing EVERYTHING with your parter is so important. We pick our noses in front of each other, maybe it eat. We raise our legs and fart in comfort enjoying the odor. We sniff our armpits. I remove my tampon and dangle it in front of him. We burp at every meal and laugh because we are ONE. He tells me every day, I need to lose 10 pounds. Those 10 pounds make me look like a blimp. I tell him constantly he has the smallest d*ck but his technique is good so I can't tell but yes our relationship is based on complete honesty so I tell him WEEKLY, he has the smallest d*ck ever. He gave me a present that I don't like. I didn't saying thank you. I said "what a horrible gift. Take it back." Honesty always the best policy. Wow, you two deserve each other.
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Post by long on Dec 23, 2007 17:22:28 GMT -5
It was all BS right?
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Post by jewbird on Dec 23, 2007 17:24:13 GMT -5
We hope. On the other hand, it's infinitely preferable to not farting in bed until right after the ceremony.
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Post by long on Dec 28, 2007 0:01:26 GMT -5
Get over yourself. Laughing at yourself is one of life's greatest pleasures. Yet one of the worst for self esteem. I would think it's one of the best.. laughing = "it's ok, no worries" Perfectionism is one of the worst.. if you can call it a pleasure.
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Post by TotalWar on Jan 6, 2008 15:32:08 GMT -5
What I would really like is a girl that has some personality. One that is actually capable of enjoying things and doing something original for its own sake rather than as a means to attract men, and has a life beyond her stupid friends. One that is capable of holding a conversation about something beyond petty gossip, relationships, celebrities and fashion. This might seem like some pretty simple criteria to fulfill but in my experience it hasn't been. I'm beginning to think its a biological impossibility. The only times I've met girls that seemed to have some personality was when they were 1. hideous 2. lying because they didn't think they were physically attractive enough (pretty girls, it seems, don't even bother pretending to have anything inside that head of theirs) or 3. I was deluding myself.
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Post by hapalicious on Jan 6, 2008 18:29:49 GMT -5
edited the quote so that the highlighted parts show: "What I would really like is a girl that has some personality. One that is actually capable of enjoying things and doing something original for its own sake rather than as a means to attract men, and has a life beyond her stupid friends. One that is capable of holding a conversation about something beyond petty gossip, relationships, celebrities and fashion. This might seem like some pretty simple criteria to fulfill but in my experience it hasn't been. I'm beginning to think its a biological impossibility. The only times I've met girls that seemed to have some personality was when they were 1. hideous 2. lying because they didn't think they were physically attractive enough (pretty girls, it seems, don't even bother pretending to have anything inside that head of theirs) or 3. I was deluding myself."where do you live what you re asking for, is pretty common... i know a bunchload of girls that aren t like you described. on the other hand, i ve noticed that ever since moving to the US, almost every white girl in my classes only talk about make up, boys/relationships, tattle tales, bowling/movies/Josh the hunk from our *** class etc... which is why all of my friends here are international students. and i m lucky to have found international students because when i walk on campustown all i see are airheaded blondes wearing Hollister and Abercrombie jackets or hoodies, a fake orange tan, and holding their handphones and starbucks mocha latte blah blah as they stroll down the street. BUT ! i know so many girls that are the exact opposite of what you described, they also happen to be "ranking" from good looking to stunning and are for the most part (except a couple of them) ALL single. with them, i talk about politics (one in particular), environmental issues, we cook together, we each have our own hobbies, be them differrent or similar, because we have a passion, we re not all about josh and fashion: one s into gardening, another into music, photography, one has a passion for sports and works for the Olympics committee, another is a bona fide globe trotter and despites not having lived anywhere else but in France she s been to more countries than i could ever go to in one lifetime and i ve lived in 5 different countries and 3 continents, another has a calling for charity and works in orphanages in China and India. ALL without exceptions, ALL of my girl-friends either have a passion or hobby that makes their personality shine like a blaring lighthouse. if all you see are fake tanned blondes on the phone talking about how Matt s a jerk and Aaron s a hottie 24/7, then i think you re fishing in the wrong pool or living in the wrong place. a large chunk of my friends are single and all of those that are are pretty and in some cases, gorgeous. if you just look around ...on this forum alone, i feel like i could give you a punch line on almost every female poster s personality ! which is exactly what you want: personality ! just from the top of my head i m thinking of how all the female posters here differ and how different their personalities are, how varied and interesting with their different interests that DO NOT revolve around what you ve described...from flowers to cooking, arts, debating, or even just posting smart and insightful comments... so...i think you re just going out with the wrong girls. but then again, why only pick the shallow ones ? maybe that s what you re unconciously attracted to... guys claim they want personality but go for shallow self absorbed skanky girls. all the girls on campus that are actually seeing guys are the ones you described. the often times introverted/shy girls with some depth tend to be single. i m starting to think that guys actually LIKE shallow girls devoid of personality.
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Post by Emily on Jan 6, 2008 18:41:52 GMT -5
^ Agreed. Maybe the bimbos stand out so much because they're ubiquitous and rather in your face, as opposed to girls who cultivate their personality. By default, such girls aren't usually attention-seekers. I think women are actually more hard-pressed finding men that have winning personalities. And I do say this with zero bitterness, simply what I've noticed.
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Post by avax on Jan 6, 2008 21:10:36 GMT -5
Hey hey now. Don't be hating on the fake tanned blondes. And I LIKE MATT.
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Post by jewbird on Jan 6, 2008 21:42:20 GMT -5
What I would really like is a girl that has some personality. One that is actually capable of enjoying things and doing something original for its own sake rather than as a means to attract men, and has a life beyond her stupid friends. One that is capable of holding a conversation about something beyond petty gossip, relationships, celebrities and fashion. This might seem like some pretty simple criteria to fulfill but in my experience it hasn't been. I'm beginning to think its a biological impossibility. The only times I've met girls that seemed to have some personality was when they were 1. hideous 2. lying because they didn't think they were physically attractive enough (pretty girls, it seems, don't even bother pretending to have anything inside that head of theirs) or 3. I was deluding myself. You have to think that maybe girls are just into such things. Initially, the biological imperative is to attract men. On the other hand, when they fill their biological imperatives to attract men and continue as wives and mothers, you see that maybe they're good for something else after all.
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