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Post by fumanchu on Jan 6, 2008 21:48:57 GMT -5
yeah, don't you be dissin Matt! He means well. I'd agree. I've no idea what a winning personality is, but i'd say its harder for a girl to find a decent guy than the other way around. Girls tend to have girly quirks that i don't understand as a guy, but a lot of guys i meet i wouldn't want them as mates, i just don't get their values. On the personality topic, I remember hearing a psychologist say that when you fall in love you are often just loving yourself: The person with the "good personality" is really just someone with a personality like yours (lovin yourself once). The more you project yourself onto the other person the more you "fall in love" with them (the infatuation stage, and lovin yourself twice). It's only over time when the projections fall away and you begin to acknowledge and accept the individual differences that you really begin to have an "authentic relationship" in the lingo or a long term loving relationship. And this is also the time when people start saying "he/she isn't who i thought he/she was" and packing their bags. So be careful, finding the "right person" who is "so like you" can just be a result of you deluding yourself. Although a little delusion from time to time never hurt anyone
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Post by TotalWar on Jan 8, 2008 23:42:03 GMT -5
edited the quote so that the highlighted parts show: where do you live O-f***ing-hio. That might explain something.
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