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Post by PerzanKitCat86205 on Jun 11, 2008 13:01:17 GMT -5
It's usually what you're willing to do and if you know "what" the other person wants, already.
Like, I don't care if the other person is totally the opposite of all I find attractive. I don't let them rub influence on me. I don't know why other people are scared. I assume it's because they love their family.
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Post by JohnnyUtah on Jun 13, 2008 15:31:42 GMT -5
So I guess I entered the "Friends Zone" and now I need to get out of it before it's too late. Can anyone relate? Anyone got any clever advice? All I know is it's time for me to stop being a p**** and step up my A Game. Having been in this situation many times before its pretty clear what you need to do: whip out the shlong. Shlong-ing is kinda like that upside down twirly kick that Chun Li does in streetfighter... Its that last ditch move that shows 'em who's in control and gets you outta trouble really fast.It even works at awkward family events too. For instance, whenever Aunt Claire drones on with "the whole Jesus speech" at Thanksgiving, its almost like a crescendo in my head: whip it out. WHIP IT OUT. And voila. Problem solved. Give it a try and let us know how it goes. Omg , . . .any post that has the words "Auntie", "Thanksgving" and "WHIP IT OUT" is badass.
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Post by laidbacksonic74 on Jun 13, 2008 18:48:32 GMT -5
why is it a problem to be in a friend zone? ... so the only reasons to be friend of the opposite sex..is that you get in her/his pants? and if he/she don't give the satisfaction you want...you just diss this dude or chick? :S in my point of view...a friend zone can be good too....so this girl isn't into me...but she is still a cool person to hang out with....I just think...to bad....but this girl knows other girls and the other girls knows other other girls ....it's a whole chain reaction thing....it's like a mouth to mouth advertising....(not the kissing part...but the talkin part)...before you know it..oppertunities knocks.. ...and then you are doing the mouth to mouth advertising yourself..but then it's the kissin part!!
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Post by mekaga on Jun 16, 2008 22:24:55 GMT -5
JCYH, was her beauty that intoxicating, to where you felt like a bleeding idiot?..well at least you recognized it and stopped to examine before proceeding in a ill-fated direction on your part...if your intention was to just be physical then I don't know what to tell you...but if you are looking for a greater connection and she's worth it then don't give up by keeping her in your life (even as a friend)..and when the opportunity presents itself then let her know honestly...the longer you know her either the more attracted you will become or find that your attraction went so deep...or you could just point blank tell you how you feel and say..hey I really don't want to be your d*ck in the jar guy and would rather get to know you more than friends...and if she rejects you then either you have your answer or can wait in the wings until she comes around...have some confidence in what you can give her and don't shy away just become there is competition...
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Post by straylight on Jun 17, 2008 1:04:00 GMT -5
why is it a problem to be in a friend zone? ... so the only reasons to be friend of the opposite sex..is that you get in her/his pants? and if he/she don't give the satisfaction you want...you just diss this dude or chick? :S in my point of view...a friend zone can be good too....so this girl isn't into me...but she is still a cool person to hang out with....I just think...to bad....but this girl knows other girls and the other girls knows other other girls ....it's a whole chain reaction thing....it's like a mouth to mouth advertising....(not the kissing part...but the talkin part)...before you know it..oppertunities knocks.. ...and then you are doing the mouth to mouth advertising yourself..but then it's the kissin part!! It's not about sex. I mean, the reasons for really liking someone barely have anything to do with sex. Or shouldn't at least. Anyways, some people are hard to keep out of your thoughts of having some kind romantic life with them (or on the flipside, their thoughts of you), so it's best to stay away if that can't ever be a possibility. Because it'll creep up eventually. You could try to be friends, and then start noticing all of the things that drives you crazy about them, have a rough time seeing them with someone else all of the time... And it all starts over again. Best to just stay away, without the distractions. Not in all cases though. I'm friends with people I fancied or who fancied me at one point in time. It took a while for it settle down, but it can happen. Being friends with people you simply wanted to have sex with, but can't, isn't difficult at all.
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Post by viruslabrat on Nov 10, 2008 20:21:28 GMT -5
How do you tell if a guy really likes you or just wants to be friends?
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Post by straylight on Nov 11, 2008 0:22:23 GMT -5
maybe some hints of shyness, or at least, carefulness.. special attention.. bringing up obscure observations about you maybe (like a physical feature or some biographical detail..).. and last but not least, if they just tell you
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Post by swinger on Nov 11, 2008 0:39:46 GMT -5
How do you tell if a guy really likes you or just wants to be friends? Invite him up, tell him you have a stiff neck/back and ask for a massage. If he's clinical he just wants to be friends. If he gets frisky, well...
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Post by straylight on Nov 11, 2008 0:49:16 GMT -5
Eh... Anytime a woman asks for a massage, that's pretty much an instant invitation to sex (sooner or later)... no matter who you are. Even if it's my best friend's wife and his mom.
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Post by swinger on Nov 11, 2008 1:00:30 GMT -5
Eh... Anytime a woman asks for a massage, that's pretty much an instant invitation to sex (sooner or later)... no matter who you are. Even if it's my best friend's wife and his mom. So you're saying that won't separate the wheat from the chaff?
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Post by swinger on Nov 11, 2008 1:01:24 GMT -5
p.s. How was your friend's mom?
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Post by straylight on Nov 11, 2008 1:31:44 GMT -5
Eh... Anytime a woman asks for a massage, that's pretty much an instant invitation to sex (sooner or later)... no matter who you are. Even if it's my best friend's wife and his mom. So you're saying that won't separate the wheat from the chaff? not really. it just tempts anyone to become "wheat".
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Post by alphamikefoxtrot on Nov 11, 2008 1:32:43 GMT -5
How do you tell if a guy really likes you or just wants to be friends? Now is this because you would reciprocate liking him or because you are trying to nip an awkward situation in the bud?
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Post by helles on Nov 11, 2008 2:04:02 GMT -5
oh wow - the massage thing...... i had kick box class last week, but i strained my neck a couple days earlier, told my trainer and he gave me a mini massage/stretch, and then in the class was really friendly and chatty to me. maybe i gave him the 'massage' signal. oops.
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Post by straylight on Nov 11, 2008 2:19:32 GMT -5
definitely. ;D
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