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Post by viruslabrat on Nov 11, 2008 10:08:41 GMT -5
^^I wanna know because I like him but I don't want him to feel awkward if I mistaken his actions for something more than they are.
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Post by Roam'n on Nov 11, 2008 10:56:30 GMT -5
^ for guys... nothing works better then just saying so.
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Post by ChickenSoda on Nov 11, 2008 14:37:36 GMT -5
^^I wanna know because I like him but I don't want him to feel awkward if I mistaken his actions for something more than they are. If there are actions to mistake, you're probably in.
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Post by alphamikefoxtrot on Nov 11, 2008 23:53:27 GMT -5
^^I wanna know because I like him but I don't want him to feel awkward if I mistaken his actions for something more than they are. Bring him food that he likes. Just for him. Not "I baked brownies for the office...want some?"
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Post by viruslabrat on Nov 21, 2008 6:13:20 GMT -5
OK, I invited him along to a public social thing with my friends and he says he's looking forward to it. I passed on some info I printed out on the net (it's been Facebooked ) with my contact info on it. I forgot to mention to him that if he wanted more info on these street projections or to see clips of it he could contact me and I'd send him the links. Anyways, I checked my messages when I finished work and I got the message "----- is X's number, dial it whenever it feels right". What does that mean?? At this stage I thought he only thought of me as a friend. We've sat together for lunch at least half a dozen times and I'm the only person he speaks to but he never says anything remotely flirtatious. With the message, am I hoping for too much and just seeing what I want to see?
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Post by swinger on Nov 21, 2008 6:53:42 GMT -5
"----- is X's number, dial it whenever it feels right". What does that mean??
What's there to interpret? Take it literally. It's on, now give him some signals back.
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Post by DivaDancerLara on Nov 21, 2008 13:48:03 GMT -5
^hmmmm why do i feel like you are setting her up.
I do agree with swinger when he says to call the person but if you have to constantly have to interpret his actions keep a time limit on that. If guys like you you won't be in doubt you will know they will tell you. Those guys don't share what they feel are not worth wasting your time over. Even if they are attracted to you- don't bother because its too much drama and us girls need more than that and are way more important than that.
I have spent too much time trying to interpret guys...its a serious waste of your precious time. Guys are funny if they like you they will tell you...they will find you and you won't have to do anything except beat them off with a stick. The ones that are shy, on the sly or players take up too much time and are not worth it.
Notice how I included the shy guys, we think we need to give them time and sympathy because they are nice but there is sometimes an inner pride of the guy thinking about his feelings not yours...well they kinda fall into the same category for our purposes because even though they are sweet the fact that they can't come out and initiate is still a problem and we don't need that either.
Its better and faster and did i mention better to deal with the straight forward guys.
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Post by Paddy on Nov 21, 2008 18:12:15 GMT -5
It's all about having a certain amount of self-esteem and respecting the other person.
No romantic 'challenge' has life or death stakes. If she becomes 'just' a friend, then that's great. If more comes of it, then even better. If you fall flat on your face, then you're also better off for knowing. There's nothing to lose. There's nothing to be shy about. Sure, there's much to gain, but there's also a lot of fish in the sea.
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Post by alphamikefoxtrot on Nov 21, 2008 20:53:42 GMT -5
If having to choose between doing nothing and acting, ACT.
The brain is for doing math and reading. The heart is for love. Use the right organ for the job.
(p.s. I know the heart actually is an organ that pumps blood through the body to supply oxygen to muscles, organs, etc. Allow me to employ a little poetic license).
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Post by viruslabrat on Dec 2, 2008 10:54:04 GMT -5
How did you know his name??? Do I know you?
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Post by Roam'n on Dec 2, 2008 11:03:39 GMT -5
^ Ew that's creepy!
Perhaps a mod look up rodentprotector's IP and see if it's from Perth.
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Post by straylight on Dec 3, 2008 4:42:54 GMT -5
*Cuckoo*
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Post by Paddy on Dec 3, 2008 7:25:51 GMT -5
was starting to get a bit cheesy back there.
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Post by LaFace on Dec 3, 2008 19:40:30 GMT -5
lol guys that silly post on the previous page to viruslabrat was actually a prank that her and i had planned beforehand, where a few creepy posts would be made as though it was a pursuer. the prank has ended now because multiple accounts aren't allowed, which is fair enough just filling you in
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Post by swinger on Dec 3, 2008 22:24:39 GMT -5
lol guys that silly post on the previous page to viruslabrat was actually a prank that her and i had planned beforehand, where a few creepy posts would be made as though it was a pursuer. the prank has ended now because multiple accounts aren't allowed, which is fair enough just filling you in Wow, what a uniquely creative and side-splittingly funny prank! Do you think people on other forums will copy this?
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