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Post by alphamikefoxtrot on Aug 20, 2008 15:44:19 GMT -5
^ Hah! She went to our rival high school! I don't think anybody at our high school became porn stars...
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Post by straylight on Aug 20, 2008 15:50:58 GMT -5
Some sub teacher got fired once from my highschool because she had amateur porn of herself (not even porn, just pics), and it somehow got out among the students.
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Post by yujirobert on Aug 27, 2008 13:47:35 GMT -5
But in tha states, white girls see me as an Asian dude. Yea, they tell me that I'm good looking, but they also tell me they normally don't date Asians, but I'm a "hot Asian". Whats that suppose to mean. im in the uk and i get the exact same initial attitude from full white people... only a few weeks ago i met this girl at uni and we were talking about stuff on the coach which was fun untill she says to me; "just cause your pretty doesn't mean you'd be any good", which i found pretty hurtful. i guess i shouldn't assume she is referring to the asian stereotype or anything but i find alot of white girls, especially living outside london are like this. latin, hapa, and asian girls generally dont seem to be like that though.
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Post by long on Aug 27, 2008 20:07:33 GMT -5
This girl has called you attractive and openly speculated about what it would be like to have relations with you; this is not a terrible thing. If you were so inclined you could have used her implied low expectations, which may very well have been intended as a flirtatious tease, to your advantage. A confident repartee could allay her fears and set you firmly on the road to carnal delight.
But I wouldn't blame you if you weren't that into chicks who throw around unflattering stereotypes just to hit on you.
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Post by long on Aug 29, 2008 13:43:58 GMT -5
^ Don't pretend it's never happened to you Generally meant as a compliment.. "just cause your pretty doesn't mean you'd be any good" what about that. She's right, just b/c someone's good-looking doesn't make them good in bed. Doesn't automatically make them bad, either. I think it's a fairly safe bet the young lady was playing around with the most invidious of all AM stereotypes.... you know the one. At least that's the impression yujirobert got.
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Post by dipsydoodle on Sept 2, 2008 16:13:04 GMT -5
White guys have been my main antagonizers but it may be because I've never had a problem getting white girls. I think some of them expect me to and when I don't, it bugs them. But even so, most white guys don't have a problem with it. And I don't care if they date Asian girls or not. In fact, Asian girls seem kind of flaky to me so I'm not real keen on pursuing them even though I get a lot of looks from them. They're kind of flaky. But then again white women are all crazy so pick your poison, I guess.
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Post by Magic on Feb 28, 2010 14:52:37 GMT -5
If you are a great guy, you can date any chick. Nothing new there but how about average White guys that can date any race while Asian or Eurasians can't? It reveals the huge bias females have against the two aforementioned groups. Most of the time when I see an EA or AZN male in couple with a White or another race girl, he is either very good looking or have a very good personality. We can thank our geeky Asian brothers and Western media for it.
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Post by Ganbare! on Mar 7, 2010 11:49:25 GMT -5
I don't think the uber effeminate look so many Asian guys sport nowadays helps making mentalities evolve. I don't get why it's so popular, I thought Asian societies were machistic. Time for truth, would you girls hit that?
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Post by betahat on Mar 7, 2010 17:09:36 GMT -5
Well, it depends on the age group, no? Baby-faced guys with long hair and effeminate features have always been a hit with girls who are young enough - look at any boy band. A lot of the Asian students I see around here are really far from that - really into sports, short hair, working out, etc. I don't know if that is a trend or how it relates to being born in America or not.
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Post by Ganbare! on Mar 7, 2010 18:04:55 GMT -5
Like you pointed it out age definitely plays a role but I've observed that Americans tend to be more into the jock-type while Asians are more into the effeminate-type. It's a general trend there are obviously many exceptions. In the West, boys bands have mediatically died more than a decade ago while they are still commercially successful in SE Asia (SMAP..).
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Post by betahat on Mar 7, 2010 20:38:12 GMT -5
Have you heard of Robert Pattinson?
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Post by Ganbare! on Mar 7, 2010 22:42:57 GMT -5
Even if I should be ashamed for knowing that much, Vampires don't count. ;D Anyways, it would be more interesting to hear females opinion on the matter not that it really affects me, having moderate success with Caucasian girls but it's something I regularly hear around me from Asian males.
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Post by jtburge on Apr 2, 2010 11:09:45 GMT -5
yeah it does, I feel bad because a lot of times people don't think I am asian.. they say but you are 6 foot, and you don't really look asian, In some areas people don't yet realize not all asians are 5'2 and like math Its a bit irritating
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Post by conorsoccr23 on May 12, 2010 16:28:13 GMT -5
idk i guess but its only 2 the ugly girls tht i lik woodnt go out wit but uk its kinda kewl if u go out wit an asian girl since ur asian girls lik white guys better(not trying to offend ne1) but asian parents want their daughters datin asians, its the best of both worlds
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Post by Ganbare! on May 12, 2010 20:51:59 GMT -5
I know quite a lot of White girls and most are solely interested in manly Blacks or Caucasians. They'd rather go out with an average-looking White guys than fairly good-looking men of any other ethnic so it's not especially targeted at EAs or Asians!
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